My BF and I have been together 6 months. He is a virgin and I have had a few sexual partners before him. We have great communication and openly talk about nearly everything. It seems like the only thing we haven’t talk about is what I am posting here about. I understand his need/want to go slow and that he is nervous. We have done some sexual things in bed (kissing, hand jobs, blow jobs, dry humping, rubbing). I am at the point where I feel frustrated after these “sexual encounters” now instead of fulfilled. It use to feel great when he touched me and exploring each others bodies was so hot but now it feels repetitive and it seems to only satisfy his needs. He is still not ready to fully have sex but I am not sure how to stop myself without stopping the momentum we do have. I find him so sexy and he really turns me on but when it comes to sex I think he feels inferior and nervous. I do a lot of work to help him feel comfortable and try new things as he is ready and willing, but it doesn’t feel mutual and I worry if I say something or ask for more I will only deter him from the progress we have made. I want to fully connect with him and I believe sex to be an important part of relationships. How do I verbalize this to my boyfriend without freaking him out or sounding like a needy sex freak?
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r/sex My BF and I have been together 6 months. He is a virgin and I have had a few sexual partners before him. We have great communication and openly talk about nearly everything. It seems like the only thing we haven’t talk about is what I am posting here about. I understand his need/want to go slow and that he is nervous. We have done some sexual things in bed (kissing, hand jobs, blow jobs, dry humping, rubbing). I am at the point where I feel frustrated after these “sexual encounters” now instead of fulfilled. It use to feel great when he touched me and exploring each others bodies was so hot but now it feels repetitive and it seems to only satisfy his needs. He is still not ready to fully have sex but I am not sure how to stop myself without stopping the momentum we do have. I find him so sexy and he really turns me on but when it comes to sex I think he feels inferior and nervous. I do a lot of work to help him feel comfortable and try new things as he is ready and willing, but it doesn’t feel mutual and I worry if I say something or ask for more I will only deter him from the progress we have made. I want to fully connect with him and I believe sex to be an important part of relationships. How do I verbalize this to my boyfriend without freaking him out or sounding like a needy sex freak? submitted by /u/JoRose_2498 [link] [comments]
My BF and I have been together 6 months. He is a virgin and I have had a few sexual partners before him. We have great communication and openly talk about nearly everything. It seems like the only thing we haven’t talk about is what I am posting here about. I understand his need/want to go slow and that he is nervous. We have done some sexual things in bed (kissing, hand jobs, blow jobs, dry humping, rubbing). I am at the point where I feel frustrated after these “sexual encounters” now instead of fulfilled. It use to feel great when he touched me and exploring each others bodies was so hot but now it feels repetitive and it seems to only satisfy his needs. He is still not ready to fully have sex but I am not sure how to stop myself without stopping the momentum we do have. I find him so sexy and he really turns me on but when it comes to sex I think he feels inferior and nervous. I do a lot of work to help him feel comfortable and try new things as he is ready and willing, but it doesn’t feel mutual and I worry if I say something or ask for more I will only deter him from the progress we have made. I want to fully connect with him and I believe sex to be an important part of relationships. How do I verbalize this to my boyfriend without freaking him out or sounding like a needy sex freak?
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