Hey everyone, I’ve been really struggling with being on top during sex, and I’m hoping for some advice or insight. Every time I try, I find myself cramping up, losing rhythm, and getting tired way too quickly—like I’m doing an intense workout rather than having an intimate moment. On top of that, I don’t even feel much pleasure because I’m so focused on staying balanced and trying to keep things going. It’s frustrating because I want to be able to switch things up and feel confident and natural in this position, but it just feels awkward and physically exhausting for me.
Have any of you dealt with this? How do I improve my stamina, rhythm, and comfort while being on top? Are there any tips, tricks, or exercises I can do to make it feel less like a struggle and more enjoyable for both of us? I want to get better at this for myself and my girlfriend, so any advice is appreciated!
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r/sex Hey everyone, I’ve been really struggling with being on top during sex, and I’m hoping for some advice or insight. Every time I try, I find myself cramping up, losing rhythm, and getting tired way too quickly—like I’m doing an intense workout rather than having an intimate moment. On top of that, I don’t even feel much pleasure because I’m so focused on staying balanced and trying to keep things going. It’s frustrating because I want to be able to switch things up and feel confident and natural in this position, but it just feels awkward and physically exhausting for me. Have any of you dealt with this? How do I improve my stamina, rhythm, and comfort while being on top? Are there any tips, tricks, or exercises I can do to make it feel less like a struggle and more enjoyable for both of us? I want to get better at this for myself and my girlfriend, so any advice is appreciated! submitted by /u/JimDoggg [link] [comments]
Hey everyone, I’ve been really struggling with being on top during sex, and I’m hoping for some advice or insight. Every time I try, I find myself cramping up, losing rhythm, and getting tired way too quickly—like I’m doing an intense workout rather than having an intimate moment. On top of that, I don’t even feel much pleasure because I’m so focused on staying balanced and trying to keep things going. It’s frustrating because I want to be able to switch things up and feel confident and natural in this position, but it just feels awkward and physically exhausting for me.
Have any of you dealt with this? How do I improve my stamina, rhythm, and comfort while being on top? Are there any tips, tricks, or exercises I can do to make it feel less like a struggle and more enjoyable for both of us? I want to get better at this for myself and my girlfriend, so any advice is appreciated!
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