Can’t orgasm without vibrator? /u/NoMistake2707 Sex

Hi everyone, I’m a 25-year-old woman, and I’m getting worried. I’ve had trouble orgasming with partners for the past seven years. To be completely honest, I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner.

I’ve always struggled to orgasm without a vibrator. You might think, “Oh, just ask your partner to use a vibrator during sex.” And yes, I have tried that, but they weren’t open to it, which is part of the reason I’m currently single.

When I’m by myself, I can usually orgasm with a vibrator and penetration, whether it’s fingers or a toy. But when I try to orgasm with just my fingers, I can’t seem to do it.

I even tried not masturbating for a month to see if that would help. I was very sensitive afterward, but I still couldn’t get there with just my fingers.

Is this some kind of blockage? Is it mental? I really want to be able to orgasm with a partner or even just with my fingers, but I’m not sure if I can. What’s wrong with me?

Hi everyone, I’m a 25-year-old woman, and I’m getting worried. I’ve had trouble orgasming with partners for the past seven years. To be completely honest, I’ve never had an orgasm with a partner.

I’ve always struggled to orgasm without a vibrator. You might think, “Oh, just ask your partner to use a vibrator during sex.” And yes, I have tried that, but they weren’t open to it, which is part of the reason I’m currently single.

When I’m by myself, I can usually orgasm with a vibrator and penetration, whether it’s fingers or a toy. But when I try to orgasm with just my fingers, I can’t seem to do it.

I even tried not masturbating for a month to see if that would help. I was very sensitive afterward, but I still couldn’t get there with just my fingers.

Is this some kind of blockage? Is it mental? I really want to be able to orgasm with a partner or even just with my fingers, but I’m not sure if I can. What’s wrong with me?