Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking about something and wanted to get your thoughts. I’m a 21M and I’ve had a fair amount of sexual experience. One thing I’ve noticed is that blowjobs just don’t do much for me.
A lot of the guys I’ve been with seem to love giving them, and I totally get why-it’s a super intimate act, and I think it’s really hot that they’re into it. But for some reason, I just don’t feel much physically when it’s happening. It’s not that I don’t enjoy the moment or the connection, but it’s rare (if ever) that I actually finish from oral.
It’s been on my mind lately because I’ve started wondering if there’s something “wrong” with me. I know oral is a big thing for a lot of people, and I feel a little self-conscious that it doesn’t affect me the same way.
Is this something others have experienced? Could it just be a sensitivity thing, or maybe I need to figure out how to relax more? I’m open to any advice or insights you all have. Would love to hear your thoughts!
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r/sex Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking about something and wanted to get your thoughts. I’m a 21M and I’ve had a fair amount of sexual experience. One thing I’ve noticed is that blowjobs just don’t do much for me. A lot of the guys I’ve been with seem to love giving them, and I totally get why-it’s a super intimate act, and I think it’s really hot that they’re into it. But for some reason, I just don’t feel much physically when it’s happening. It’s not that I don’t enjoy the moment or the connection, but it’s rare (if ever) that I actually finish from oral. It’s been on my mind lately because I’ve started wondering if there’s something “wrong” with me. I know oral is a big thing for a lot of people, and I feel a little self-conscious that it doesn’t affect me the same way. Is this something others have experienced? Could it just be a sensitivity thing, or maybe I need to figure out how to relax more? I’m open to any advice or insights you all have. Would love to hear your thoughts! submitted by /u/panchinii [link] [comments]
Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking about something and wanted to get your thoughts. I’m a 21M and I’ve had a fair amount of sexual experience. One thing I’ve noticed is that blowjobs just don’t do much for me.
A lot of the guys I’ve been with seem to love giving them, and I totally get why-it’s a super intimate act, and I think it’s really hot that they’re into it. But for some reason, I just don’t feel much physically when it’s happening. It’s not that I don’t enjoy the moment or the connection, but it’s rare (if ever) that I actually finish from oral.
It’s been on my mind lately because I’ve started wondering if there’s something “wrong” with me. I know oral is a big thing for a lot of people, and I feel a little self-conscious that it doesn’t affect me the same way.
Is this something others have experienced? Could it just be a sensitivity thing, or maybe I need to figure out how to relax more? I’m open to any advice or insights you all have. Would love to hear your thoughts!
submitted by /u/panchinii
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