My (56m) wife (53f) was brought up in an age when sex wasn’t much talked about, and regarded as a dirty subject.
We have had a very enjoyable sex life, especially in our 40s when she seemed to have extra enthusiasm for want of a better description.
I’ve had health problems and ED more recently, and she is going through menopause and her libido is lower. She is on HRT, and hopefully the libido side will improve in time.
Meanwhile I’ve had a bit of a sexual awakening, got more confident to talk about things like (tasteful) sexy lingerie, toys… Recently my wife expressed that she found stockings sleazy, and she wasn’t sure about sex toys as she was brought up thinking such things were dirty, or kinky, and she shouldn’t have fantasies…
Valid feelings of course, and I’d never try to force my wife do something she found uncomfortable, but are there any good books or websites etc that might allow her to realise such things aren’t dirty, and an increasingly ‘normal’ part of life now? Help her get more comfortable with her sexuality?
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r/sex My (56m) wife (53f) was brought up in an age when sex wasn’t much talked about, and regarded as a dirty subject. We have had a very enjoyable sex life, especially in our 40s when she seemed to have extra enthusiasm for want of a better description. I’ve had health problems and ED more recently, and she is going through menopause and her libido is lower. She is on HRT, and hopefully the libido side will improve in time. Meanwhile I’ve had a bit of a sexual awakening, got more confident to talk about things like (tasteful) sexy lingerie, toys… Recently my wife expressed that she found stockings sleazy, and she wasn’t sure about sex toys as she was brought up thinking such things were dirty, or kinky, and she shouldn’t have fantasies… Valid feelings of course, and I’d never try to force my wife do something she found uncomfortable, but are there any good books or websites etc that might allow her to realise such things aren’t dirty, and an increasingly ‘normal’ part of life now? Help her get more comfortable with her sexuality? submitted by /u/Ok_Recognition_3066 [link] [comments]
My (56m) wife (53f) was brought up in an age when sex wasn’t much talked about, and regarded as a dirty subject.
We have had a very enjoyable sex life, especially in our 40s when she seemed to have extra enthusiasm for want of a better description.
I’ve had health problems and ED more recently, and she is going through menopause and her libido is lower. She is on HRT, and hopefully the libido side will improve in time.
Meanwhile I’ve had a bit of a sexual awakening, got more confident to talk about things like (tasteful) sexy lingerie, toys… Recently my wife expressed that she found stockings sleazy, and she wasn’t sure about sex toys as she was brought up thinking such things were dirty, or kinky, and she shouldn’t have fantasies…
Valid feelings of course, and I’d never try to force my wife do something she found uncomfortable, but are there any good books or websites etc that might allow her to realise such things aren’t dirty, and an increasingly ‘normal’ part of life now? Help her get more comfortable with her sexuality?
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