I (f19) and my bf (m19) have been together for about 6-7 months but we’ve known each other since elementary school. When we first got together, we would have sex multiple times a day everyday; but recently I have not been in the mood / have not wanted to. We have sex maybe 1 time every 2 weeks, and when we do I feel like I want to hurry up and get it over with. He doesn’t get mad or upset when we don’t have sex, but it makes him feel insecure and like there is something wrong with him. But I am more experienced and have more kinks than he does, as I am the one who took his virginity and he has only ever been with me. He is not comfortable doing some of the things I like having done during sex like degradation, being thrown around a bit, and over all roughness because he’s scared to hurt me or my feelings.
I sometimes find myself reminiscing about my past sexual experiences and partners because they were rough and fed into my freakiness. I feel terrible and have a lot of guilt about it. My bf is usually very good at oral but recently it hasn’t been very good. During it I find myself distracted by the tv or just thinking about all types of things. Sometimes it makes me feel like cheating, but I love him very much and would never want to hurt him like that, and would never act on those feelings. Sometimes I wonder if we are just not sexually compatible or if it’s just a rough patch in our relationship.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated, (this is also my first post so I am very nervous 😭)
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r/sex I (f19) and my bf (m19) have been together for about 6-7 months but we’ve known each other since elementary school. When we first got together, we would have sex multiple times a day everyday; but recently I have not been in the mood / have not wanted to. We have sex maybe 1 time every 2 weeks, and when we do I feel like I want to hurry up and get it over with. He doesn’t get mad or upset when we don’t have sex, but it makes him feel insecure and like there is something wrong with him. But I am more experienced and have more kinks than he does, as I am the one who took his virginity and he has only ever been with me. He is not comfortable doing some of the things I like having done during sex like degradation, being thrown around a bit, and over all roughness because he’s scared to hurt me or my feelings. I sometimes find myself reminiscing about my past sexual experiences and partners because they were rough and fed into my freakiness. I feel terrible and have a lot of guilt about it. My bf is usually very good at oral but recently it hasn’t been very good. During it I find myself distracted by the tv or just thinking about all types of things. Sometimes it makes me feel like cheating, but I love him very much and would never want to hurt him like that, and would never act on those feelings. Sometimes I wonder if we are just not sexually compatible or if it’s just a rough patch in our relationship. Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated, (this is also my first post so I am very nervous 😭) submitted by /u/Dry_Advertising_2278 [link] [comments]
I (f19) and my bf (m19) have been together for about 6-7 months but we’ve known each other since elementary school. When we first got together, we would have sex multiple times a day everyday; but recently I have not been in the mood / have not wanted to. We have sex maybe 1 time every 2 weeks, and when we do I feel like I want to hurry up and get it over with. He doesn’t get mad or upset when we don’t have sex, but it makes him feel insecure and like there is something wrong with him. But I am more experienced and have more kinks than he does, as I am the one who took his virginity and he has only ever been with me. He is not comfortable doing some of the things I like having done during sex like degradation, being thrown around a bit, and over all roughness because he’s scared to hurt me or my feelings.
I sometimes find myself reminiscing about my past sexual experiences and partners because they were rough and fed into my freakiness. I feel terrible and have a lot of guilt about it. My bf is usually very good at oral but recently it hasn’t been very good. During it I find myself distracted by the tv or just thinking about all types of things. Sometimes it makes me feel like cheating, but I love him very much and would never want to hurt him like that, and would never act on those feelings. Sometimes I wonder if we are just not sexually compatible or if it’s just a rough patch in our relationship.
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated, (this is also my first post so I am very nervous 😭)
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