Greetings everyone!
To start off, I want to say that I enjoy sex with her. We are in an LDR and I visited her for 2 weeks. We started off great and had a lot of sex, but then after a week she admitted that she felt the sex was boring. I was taken aback and felt bad but I asked her why does she feel like that. Her reasoning was that we don’t try anything new and the fact that the frequency has really gone up (from nil to 3 times a day). I feel we do a lot of foreplay we kiss a lot (I kiss her everywhere) and then I go down on her until she orgasms. Then, she gives me a BJ for some time and then we proceed to penetration which is mostly missionary (her preference). She specifically likes missionary, but when I ask her to do doggy she says its tiring. No big deal for me. She proposes trying some new positions and we tried but either they are uncomfortable for me or for her. I also feel that she thinks my dick is small because sometimes she does not feel I am in her (I am average sized guy) and the fact that I don’t last very long (7-10 minutes) is contributing to this. Although she has never outrughtly said these things to me. I gifted her a vibrator (clit+penetration) and I use it ok her as well but she said she only prefers to use it when I am away.
After this, I asked her what can I/we can do to not make it boring and she said she had no idea. Please recommend what should we do? How can I make it interesting?
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r/sex Greetings everyone! To start off, I want to say that I enjoy sex with her. We are in an LDR and I visited her for 2 weeks. We started off great and had a lot of sex, but then after a week she admitted that she felt the sex was boring. I was taken aback and felt bad but I asked her why does she feel like that. Her reasoning was that we don’t try anything new and the fact that the frequency has really gone up (from nil to 3 times a day). I feel we do a lot of foreplay we kiss a lot (I kiss her everywhere) and then I go down on her until she orgasms. Then, she gives me a BJ for some time and then we proceed to penetration which is mostly missionary (her preference). She specifically likes missionary, but when I ask her to do doggy she says its tiring. No big deal for me. She proposes trying some new positions and we tried but either they are uncomfortable for me or for her. I also feel that she thinks my dick is small because sometimes she does not feel I am in her (I am average sized guy) and the fact that I don’t last very long (7-10 minutes) is contributing to this. Although she has never outrughtly said these things to me. I gifted her a vibrator (clit+penetration) and I use it ok her as well but she said she only prefers to use it when I am away. After this, I asked her what can I/we can do to not make it boring and she said she had no idea. Please recommend what should we do? How can I make it interesting? submitted by /u/Significant-Movie945 [link] [comments]
Greetings everyone!
To start off, I want to say that I enjoy sex with her. We are in an LDR and I visited her for 2 weeks. We started off great and had a lot of sex, but then after a week she admitted that she felt the sex was boring. I was taken aback and felt bad but I asked her why does she feel like that. Her reasoning was that we don’t try anything new and the fact that the frequency has really gone up (from nil to 3 times a day). I feel we do a lot of foreplay we kiss a lot (I kiss her everywhere) and then I go down on her until she orgasms. Then, she gives me a BJ for some time and then we proceed to penetration which is mostly missionary (her preference). She specifically likes missionary, but when I ask her to do doggy she says its tiring. No big deal for me. She proposes trying some new positions and we tried but either they are uncomfortable for me or for her. I also feel that she thinks my dick is small because sometimes she does not feel I am in her (I am average sized guy) and the fact that I don’t last very long (7-10 minutes) is contributing to this. Although she has never outrughtly said these things to me. I gifted her a vibrator (clit+penetration) and I use it ok her as well but she said she only prefers to use it when I am away.
After this, I asked her what can I/we can do to not make it boring and she said she had no idea. Please recommend what should we do? How can I make it interesting?
submitted by /u/Significant-Movie945
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