Yesterday, I came to reddit for advice. Basically, i’m the DM and one of my friends takes the campaign seriously, like me. But the other two make fun of it, only being very rarely serious, and that’s combat.
Reddit gave me good advice, basically that I don’t have to play DnD with them, just because they’re my friends. After multiple warnings to those friends, I decided to tell them that our visions just don’t match and that’s okay, so me and my friend were going to find a table that takes it a bit more seriously.
One friend took it like a champ, pretty much agreeing with me.
The second one started pretty much gaslighting me with things like “but i was serious”, “maybe i would be more interested if we didn’t have to remind you of stuff”, and when I told him that we would accept him if he was more serious, he said “yknow what, find some new players, i dont care.”
This is one of my closest friends, and i’m afraid this will hurt our friendship. What should I do?
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r/DnD Yesterday, I came to reddit for advice. Basically, i’m the DM and one of my friends takes the campaign seriously, like me. But the other two make fun of it, only being very rarely serious, and that’s combat. Reddit gave me good advice, basically that I don’t have to play DnD with them, just because they’re my friends. After multiple warnings to those friends, I decided to tell them that our visions just don’t match and that’s okay, so me and my friend were going to find a table that takes it a bit more seriously. One friend took it like a champ, pretty much agreeing with me. The second one started pretty much gaslighting me with things like “but i was serious”, “maybe i would be more interested if we didn’t have to remind you of stuff”, and when I told him that we would accept him if he was more serious, he said “yknow what, find some new players, i dont care.” This is one of my closest friends, and i’m afraid this will hurt our friendship. What should I do? submitted by /u/Dark_Vexer [link] [comments]
Yesterday, I came to reddit for advice. Basically, i’m the DM and one of my friends takes the campaign seriously, like me. But the other two make fun of it, only being very rarely serious, and that’s combat.
Reddit gave me good advice, basically that I don’t have to play DnD with them, just because they’re my friends. After multiple warnings to those friends, I decided to tell them that our visions just don’t match and that’s okay, so me and my friend were going to find a table that takes it a bit more seriously.
One friend took it like a champ, pretty much agreeing with me.
The second one started pretty much gaslighting me with things like “but i was serious”, “maybe i would be more interested if we didn’t have to remind you of stuff”, and when I told him that we would accept him if he was more serious, he said “yknow what, find some new players, i dont care.”
This is one of my closest friends, and i’m afraid this will hurt our friendship. What should I do?
submitted by /u/Dark_Vexer
[link] [comments]