My wife (f,67) tells me (m,66) she’s satisfied with our sex life and we do have sex on average twice a week and this is after 48 years of marriage. Problem is I was a virgin when we were married at 19 and have never cheated. She had a brief affair with my then best friend about 20 years into our marriage and I know she experienced SA as a teenager. The problem for me is that I’m no superstar and after my 5-10 minute of PIV she says she has had what she calls several orgasms. Should I quit complaining and just accept the good sex which I enjoy and not worry so much about her pleasure? I worry both that she is not really enjoying it or that she has never been able to experience a true orgasm. Worse even, I worry that she does know what it feels like and was able to have it with others and just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. She is very reserved when it comes to talking about our sex life.
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r/sex My wife (f,67) tells me (m,66) she’s satisfied with our sex life and we do have sex on average twice a week and this is after 48 years of marriage. Problem is I was a virgin when we were married at 19 and have never cheated. She had a brief affair with my then best friend about 20 years into our marriage and I know she experienced SA as a teenager. The problem for me is that I’m no superstar and after my 5-10 minute of PIV she says she has had what she calls several orgasms. Should I quit complaining and just accept the good sex which I enjoy and not worry so much about her pleasure? I worry both that she is not really enjoying it or that she has never been able to experience a true orgasm. Worse even, I worry that she does know what it feels like and was able to have it with others and just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. She is very reserved when it comes to talking about our sex life. submitted by /u/jklong03 [link] [comments]
My wife (f,67) tells me (m,66) she’s satisfied with our sex life and we do have sex on average twice a week and this is after 48 years of marriage. Problem is I was a virgin when we were married at 19 and have never cheated. She had a brief affair with my then best friend about 20 years into our marriage and I know she experienced SA as a teenager. The problem for me is that I’m no superstar and after my 5-10 minute of PIV she says she has had what she calls several orgasms. Should I quit complaining and just accept the good sex which I enjoy and not worry so much about her pleasure? I worry both that she is not really enjoying it or that she has never been able to experience a true orgasm. Worse even, I worry that she does know what it feels like and was able to have it with others and just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. She is very reserved when it comes to talking about our sex life.
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