We’ve been together for 2 years. The problem started early in our relationship. I noticed he wouldn’t really spend any time on getting me off or on foreplay. So I communicated that I needed more foreplay. He didn’t change anything, and kept promising he would. A year and a half later and nothing has changed.
Not only that but he never went down on me which generated insecurities for me. He didn’t go down on me because he had a bad experience with an ex. Imagine, two years without oral. And he’d get oral from me all the time.
Our sex life was shit and I kept trying to advocate for it. There were times where sex would hurt because there wasn’t enough foreplay. It didn’t give me enough time to feel prepared.
Now besides this he was a sweet man, and kind to me. I’m feeling guilty about breaking up with him and not sure if I made the right decision. I was just tired of waiting for a change that was never gonna happen to happen.
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r/sex We’ve been together for 2 years. The problem started early in our relationship. I noticed he wouldn’t really spend any time on getting me off or on foreplay. So I communicated that I needed more foreplay. He didn’t change anything, and kept promising he would. A year and a half later and nothing has changed. Not only that but he never went down on me which generated insecurities for me. He didn’t go down on me because he had a bad experience with an ex. Imagine, two years without oral. And he’d get oral from me all the time. Our sex life was shit and I kept trying to advocate for it. There were times where sex would hurt because there wasn’t enough foreplay. It didn’t give me enough time to feel prepared. Now besides this he was a sweet man, and kind to me. I’m feeling guilty about breaking up with him and not sure if I made the right decision. I was just tired of waiting for a change that was never gonna happen to happen. submitted by /u/throwaway__246788 [link] [comments]
We’ve been together for 2 years. The problem started early in our relationship. I noticed he wouldn’t really spend any time on getting me off or on foreplay. So I communicated that I needed more foreplay. He didn’t change anything, and kept promising he would. A year and a half later and nothing has changed.
Not only that but he never went down on me which generated insecurities for me. He didn’t go down on me because he had a bad experience with an ex. Imagine, two years without oral. And he’d get oral from me all the time.
Our sex life was shit and I kept trying to advocate for it. There were times where sex would hurt because there wasn’t enough foreplay. It didn’t give me enough time to feel prepared.
Now besides this he was a sweet man, and kind to me. I’m feeling guilty about breaking up with him and not sure if I made the right decision. I was just tired of waiting for a change that was never gonna happen to happen.
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