So to preface this, my girlfriend [19 f] and I [18 M] have been dating for about 5 months now. We’ve been intimate, but haven’t had sex yet, which isn’t an issue at all because we don’t really feel prepared yet. My concern is our difference in kinks/fetishes. At the beginning of our relationship, we talked a little bit about our interests and preferences, and discovered that I’m a quite a bit more kinky than she is, something that she was worried about for a while. We cleared everything up, and I assured her I wouldn’t bring anything to the bedroom that she wasn’t into, but now I’m worried to tell her about different fantasies I have because I don’t to scare her. It was a pretty big sticking point for her last time we had a discussion about my kinks. I’m just not sure if anyone has any advice about how to to have these kinds of discussions? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!
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r/sex So to preface this, my girlfriend [19 f] and I [18 M] have been dating for about 5 months now. We’ve been intimate, but haven’t had sex yet, which isn’t an issue at all because we don’t really feel prepared yet. My concern is our difference in kinks/fetishes. At the beginning of our relationship, we talked a little bit about our interests and preferences, and discovered that I’m a quite a bit more kinky than she is, something that she was worried about for a while. We cleared everything up, and I assured her I wouldn’t bring anything to the bedroom that she wasn’t into, but now I’m worried to tell her about different fantasies I have because I don’t to scare her. It was a pretty big sticking point for her last time we had a discussion about my kinks. I’m just not sure if anyone has any advice about how to to have these kinds of discussions? Any help is appreciated. Thanks! submitted by /u/throwaway98975492 [link] [comments]
So to preface this, my girlfriend [19 f] and I [18 M] have been dating for about 5 months now. We’ve been intimate, but haven’t had sex yet, which isn’t an issue at all because we don’t really feel prepared yet. My concern is our difference in kinks/fetishes. At the beginning of our relationship, we talked a little bit about our interests and preferences, and discovered that I’m a quite a bit more kinky than she is, something that she was worried about for a while. We cleared everything up, and I assured her I wouldn’t bring anything to the bedroom that she wasn’t into, but now I’m worried to tell her about different fantasies I have because I don’t to scare her. It was a pretty big sticking point for her last time we had a discussion about my kinks. I’m just not sure if anyone has any advice about how to to have these kinds of discussions? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!
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