Few months ago I have used to make my gf cum each time during oral, now suddenly she can’t orgasm anymore through oral ( At the very beginning without g-spot because it was still painful even with lube ). Either she gets exhausted during climax or needs to pee because of g-spot stimulation and is overstimulated afterwards. She is also on birth control recently but this thing has been already happening before the pill. We already went to the doctor to get her hormons & blood checked and the results were looking fine. On extremely lucky days I can get her off even though I haven’t changed anything and if I try to replicate it next time it won’t work again.
What we have tried:
Introducing toys – she doesn’t like the feeling at all
Going to the toilet before – ends up exhausted and can’t handle oral anymore but is able to finish herself off
More cuddling, kissing – no improvement, I’m always asking her if I should go slower, faster, softer etc. she tells me what feels good, where to go..
Changing up technique – no improvement
One session could go over one hour with her climaxing and losing the sensation completely.. I do lose my confidence in myself on days where she is really into it but can’t orgasm from me. It’s not like if I am constantly asking her if she is cumming, I keep doing what she likes until she is satisfied without pressuring her although it’s worrying what has been wrong for months. When asking her what kind of ‘weird’ feeling comes before she gets overstimulated or so, she doesn’t know herself what’s the issue.
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r/sex Few months ago I have used to make my gf cum each time during oral, now suddenly she can’t orgasm anymore through oral ( At the very beginning without g-spot because it was still painful even with lube ). Either she gets exhausted during climax or needs to pee because of g-spot stimulation and is overstimulated afterwards. She is also on birth control recently but this thing has been already happening before the pill. We already went to the doctor to get her hormons & blood checked and the results were looking fine. On extremely lucky days I can get her off even though I haven’t changed anything and if I try to replicate it next time it won’t work again. What we have tried: Introducing toys – she doesn’t like the feeling at all Going to the toilet before – ends up exhausted and can’t handle oral anymore but is able to finish herself off More cuddling, kissing – no improvement, I’m always asking her if I should go slower, faster, softer etc. she tells me what feels good, where to go.. Changing up technique – no improvement One session could go over one hour with her climaxing and losing the sensation completely.. I do lose my confidence in myself on days where she is really into it but can’t orgasm from me. It’s not like if I am constantly asking her if she is cumming, I keep doing what she likes until she is satisfied without pressuring her although it’s worrying what has been wrong for months. When asking her what kind of ‘weird’ feeling comes before she gets overstimulated or so, she doesn’t know herself what’s the issue. submitted by /u/Civil-Cardiologist52 [link] [comments]
Few months ago I have used to make my gf cum each time during oral, now suddenly she can’t orgasm anymore through oral ( At the very beginning without g-spot because it was still painful even with lube ). Either she gets exhausted during climax or needs to pee because of g-spot stimulation and is overstimulated afterwards. She is also on birth control recently but this thing has been already happening before the pill. We already went to the doctor to get her hormons & blood checked and the results were looking fine. On extremely lucky days I can get her off even though I haven’t changed anything and if I try to replicate it next time it won’t work again.
What we have tried:
Introducing toys – she doesn’t like the feeling at all
Going to the toilet before – ends up exhausted and can’t handle oral anymore but is able to finish herself off
More cuddling, kissing – no improvement, I’m always asking her if I should go slower, faster, softer etc. she tells me what feels good, where to go..
Changing up technique – no improvement
One session could go over one hour with her climaxing and losing the sensation completely.. I do lose my confidence in myself on days where she is really into it but can’t orgasm from me. It’s not like if I am constantly asking her if she is cumming, I keep doing what she likes until she is satisfied without pressuring her although it’s worrying what has been wrong for months. When asking her what kind of ‘weird’ feeling comes before she gets overstimulated or so, she doesn’t know herself what’s the issue.
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