I can only orgasm with my partner when I am really sleepy /u/torturedpoet68 Sex

I love my boyfriend and I love being intimate with him, however it has always been difficult for me to achieve orgasm when we are being intimate together. I have not had many sexual experiences with other people, but the ones I have had never ended in me orgasming.

My boyfriend is the only person who has made me cum, and he has made me cum about five times total during our relationship. I think it’s crazy that he has even been able to make me cum once because I always thought I was just broken.

He does a fantastic job and he knows what he is doing, but sometimes my brain just doesn’t let me fully get there.

The other day, he woke me up because he was feeling particularly horny, and it was so hot. He obviously made sure I was wanting to participate before moving forward with everything, but he ate me out and I just laid back with my eyes closed and let him do his thing. I think I was just soooo relaxed that I was able to cum within a few minutes. It was crazy.

I was so excited after the fact but I didn’t really fill him in on that afterward.

Is it weird to ask him to wake me up and eat me out more often? I feel like this could sound borderline rape-y almost? even though i’d be a willing participant. Rape-y isn’t even the word I’m looking for, I just feel like this could be a weird request because I’d be just waking up and not fully conscious when a move is made.

I’ve tried having a glass of wine or taking a gummy before hand to help make me feel relaxed, but that didn’t really help. Each time I’ve cum with him, it’s been when I am pretty sleepy.

I love my boyfriend and I love being intimate with him, however it has always been difficult for me to achieve orgasm when we are being intimate together. I have not had many sexual experiences with other people, but the ones I have had never ended in me orgasming.

My boyfriend is the only person who has made me cum, and he has made me cum about five times total during our relationship. I think it’s crazy that he has even been able to make me cum once because I always thought I was just broken.

He does a fantastic job and he knows what he is doing, but sometimes my brain just doesn’t let me fully get there.

The other day, he woke me up because he was feeling particularly horny, and it was so hot. He obviously made sure I was wanting to participate before moving forward with everything, but he ate me out and I just laid back with my eyes closed and let him do his thing. I think I was just soooo relaxed that I was able to cum within a few minutes. It was crazy.

I was so excited after the fact but I didn’t really fill him in on that afterward.

Is it weird to ask him to wake me up and eat me out more often? I feel like this could sound borderline rape-y almost? even though i’d be a willing participant. Rape-y isn’t even the word I’m looking for, I just feel like this could be a weird request because I’d be just waking up and not fully conscious when a move is made.

I’ve tried having a glass of wine or taking a gummy before hand to help make me feel relaxed, but that didn’t really help. Each time I’ve cum with him, it’s been when I am pretty sleepy.