Should I [29F] tell my bf [36M] about my body count. I feel like nothing good will come of it. /u/throwawaymonday99 Sex

So basically my bf of a few months is from a pretty conservative culture. I really like him though and I hope it will end up in a relationship because we are pretty compatible in most other ways. Sexually though he’s only been in three long term relationships. I had a 10 year relationship myself that I only left last year. But during most of that relationship I was poly and had lots of partners. After leaving that relationship I had an even wilder phase but I feel like I’m ‘reformed’ now and that past doesn’t really translate to who I am now.

Anyway he recently asked me about my sexual past and I said I had two relationships and left it at that. Its technically not a lie but I didn’t tell him at all about my actual body count or anything because I feel like theres no point. He’s said in the past that even though hes from a conservative culture he’s very sex positive. For instance he’s totally fine with me wearing revealing clothing. But I just dont know whether theres any point in telling him.

On the other hand my previous relationship didnt work out well cause I felt we were never on the same page in communication. So idk, do you guys think I should just tell him even though its a very high number compared to his?

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​r/sex So basically my bf of a few months is from a pretty conservative culture. I really like him though and I hope it will end up in a relationship because we are pretty compatible in most other ways. Sexually though he’s only been in three long term relationships. I had a 10 year relationship myself that I only left last year. But during most of that relationship I was poly and had lots of partners. After leaving that relationship I had an even wilder phase but I feel like I’m ‘reformed’ now and that past doesn’t really translate to who I am now. Anyway he recently asked me about my sexual past and I said I had two relationships and left it at that. Its technically not a lie but I didn’t tell him at all about my actual body count or anything because I feel like theres no point. He’s said in the past that even though hes from a conservative culture he’s very sex positive. For instance he’s totally fine with me wearing revealing clothing. But I just dont know whether theres any point in telling him. On the other hand my previous relationship didnt work out well cause I felt we were never on the same page in communication. So idk, do you guys think I should just tell him even though its a very high number compared to his? submitted by /u/throwawaymonday99 [link] [comments] 

So basically my bf of a few months is from a pretty conservative culture. I really like him though and I hope it will end up in a relationship because we are pretty compatible in most other ways. Sexually though he’s only been in three long term relationships. I had a 10 year relationship myself that I only left last year. But during most of that relationship I was poly and had lots of partners. After leaving that relationship I had an even wilder phase but I feel like I’m ‘reformed’ now and that past doesn’t really translate to who I am now.

Anyway he recently asked me about my sexual past and I said I had two relationships and left it at that. Its technically not a lie but I didn’t tell him at all about my actual body count or anything because I feel like theres no point. He’s said in the past that even though hes from a conservative culture he’s very sex positive. For instance he’s totally fine with me wearing revealing clothing. But I just dont know whether theres any point in telling him.

On the other hand my previous relationship didnt work out well cause I felt we were never on the same page in communication. So idk, do you guys think I should just tell him even though its a very high number compared to his?

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