So I had 5 sexual partners. 1 of them was my long lasting relationship of 3 years.
I like having sex and I did it pretty often with my ex-boyfriend. He could not make me cum. I tried explaining him how I liked being touched, but it just didn’t work. I would end up pretending every goddamn time.
The same story with the other men, only difference is that I did not communicate my preferences with them.
When I masturbate, I end up having amazing orgasms, but it takes me at least maybe 30 min- 1 hour to get there.
The thing is I am a very big fan of foreplay and mental games.
But men(at least the ones that I had sex with), in general, prefer to rush things.
Recently, I had sex again and I felt like I could finally cum, but he finished too early.
That made me very frustrated and it makes me think that I would never experience an orgasm during sex.
I also feel bad about telling them the truth, so I would always end up pretending.
I really need advice from women. Did y’all have the same experience as me? If so, did you manage to finish during sex, at some point?
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r/sex So I had 5 sexual partners. 1 of them was my long lasting relationship of 3 years. I like having sex and I did it pretty often with my ex-boyfriend. He could not make me cum. I tried explaining him how I liked being touched, but it just didn’t work. I would end up pretending every goddamn time. The same story with the other men, only difference is that I did not communicate my preferences with them. When I masturbate, I end up having amazing orgasms, but it takes me at least maybe 30 min- 1 hour to get there. The thing is I am a very big fan of foreplay and mental games. But men(at least the ones that I had sex with), in general, prefer to rush things. Recently, I had sex again and I felt like I could finally cum, but he finished too early. That made me very frustrated and it makes me think that I would never experience an orgasm during sex. I also feel bad about telling them the truth, so I would always end up pretending. I really need advice from women. Did y’all have the same experience as me? If so, did you manage to finish during sex, at some point? submitted by /u/wicked_melody [link] [comments]
So I had 5 sexual partners. 1 of them was my long lasting relationship of 3 years.
I like having sex and I did it pretty often with my ex-boyfriend. He could not make me cum. I tried explaining him how I liked being touched, but it just didn’t work. I would end up pretending every goddamn time.
The same story with the other men, only difference is that I did not communicate my preferences with them.
When I masturbate, I end up having amazing orgasms, but it takes me at least maybe 30 min- 1 hour to get there.
The thing is I am a very big fan of foreplay and mental games.
But men(at least the ones that I had sex with), in general, prefer to rush things.
Recently, I had sex again and I felt like I could finally cum, but he finished too early.
That made me very frustrated and it makes me think that I would never experience an orgasm during sex.
I also feel bad about telling them the truth, so I would always end up pretending.
I really need advice from women. Did y’all have the same experience as me? If so, did you manage to finish during sex, at some point?
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