My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months, and if I’m honest, our sex life is far from satisfying. We haven’t had sex in over a week, and I’m at a loss about what to do. I don’t know how to initiate, and I feel scared, nervous, and, frankly, very insecure.
One thing that really affects me is his Instagram explore page. It’s filled with half-naked women who look nothing like me—quite literally the opposite. I’ve told him how much it bothers me, but he just laughs it off and says, “You’re the one I’m with, and I love you.” While that’s sweet, it doesn’t make me feel any better.
What’s worse is that he’s not initiating sex either. I’ve never rejected him, so I don’t know why he’s not making the first move. I feel stuck and unsure of how to fix this dynamic.
So I have a few questions: 1. How can I stop feeling insecure about the women on his feed? 2. How do we work on improving our intimacy? 3. What’s the best way to start initiating sex without feeling awkward or rejected?
Any advice would mean a lot.
TL;DR – My boyfriend (23M) isn’t initiating sex, and I (22F) feel insecure about his social media feed—the girls are my opposite and i feel like if he’s attracted to that how is he attracted to me.
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r/sex My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months, and if I’m honest, our sex life is far from satisfying. We haven’t had sex in over a week, and I’m at a loss about what to do. I don’t know how to initiate, and I feel scared, nervous, and, frankly, very insecure. One thing that really affects me is his Instagram explore page. It’s filled with half-naked women who look nothing like me—quite literally the opposite. I’ve told him how much it bothers me, but he just laughs it off and says, “You’re the one I’m with, and I love you.” While that’s sweet, it doesn’t make me feel any better. What’s worse is that he’s not initiating sex either. I’ve never rejected him, so I don’t know why he’s not making the first move. I feel stuck and unsure of how to fix this dynamic. So I have a few questions: 1. How can I stop feeling insecure about the women on his feed? 2. How do we work on improving our intimacy? 3. What’s the best way to start initiating sex without feeling awkward or rejected? Any advice would mean a lot. TL;DR – My boyfriend (23M) isn’t initiating sex, and I (22F) feel insecure about his social media feed—the girls are my opposite and i feel like if he’s attracted to that how is he attracted to me. submitted by /u/doctobi [link] [comments]
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months, and if I’m honest, our sex life is far from satisfying. We haven’t had sex in over a week, and I’m at a loss about what to do. I don’t know how to initiate, and I feel scared, nervous, and, frankly, very insecure.
One thing that really affects me is his Instagram explore page. It’s filled with half-naked women who look nothing like me—quite literally the opposite. I’ve told him how much it bothers me, but he just laughs it off and says, “You’re the one I’m with, and I love you.” While that’s sweet, it doesn’t make me feel any better.
What’s worse is that he’s not initiating sex either. I’ve never rejected him, so I don’t know why he’s not making the first move. I feel stuck and unsure of how to fix this dynamic.
So I have a few questions: 1. How can I stop feeling insecure about the women on his feed? 2. How do we work on improving our intimacy? 3. What’s the best way to start initiating sex without feeling awkward or rejected?
Any advice would mean a lot.
TL;DR – My boyfriend (23M) isn’t initiating sex, and I (22F) feel insecure about his social media feed—the girls are my opposite and i feel like if he’s attracted to that how is he attracted to me.
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