My boyfriend wants to have sex without a condom. I guess technically it’s safe because we’re seeing each other exclusively, we’ve both gotten STD checks, and I’m on the pill.
But I still don’t feel comfortable without a condom. I think it’s the intimacy aspect. I only just met my boyfriend one month ago. I have had very few sexual partners, and I like to take things kind of slow. For me, sex without a condom feels like a milestone that I don’t think we’ve reached yet.
But he says he can’t stay hard while wearing a condom and in past exclusive relationships he’s never worn one. So he’s decided that until I’m comfortable enough to have sex without a condom, we shouldn’t have sex at all.
Part of me feels like that’s skipping a step, that the way for me to become comfortable with condomless sex is by first having sex with a condom. But another part of me wonders if I’m being unreasonable. Like I said, we’re protected and clean. So is sex without a condom actually not that big of an ask? Am I making things unnecessarily complicated?
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r/sex My boyfriend wants to have sex without a condom. I guess technically it’s safe because we’re seeing each other exclusively, we’ve both gotten STD checks, and I’m on the pill. But I still don’t feel comfortable without a condom. I think it’s the intimacy aspect. I only just met my boyfriend one month ago. I have had very few sexual partners, and I like to take things kind of slow. For me, sex without a condom feels like a milestone that I don’t think we’ve reached yet. But he says he can’t stay hard while wearing a condom and in past exclusive relationships he’s never worn one. So he’s decided that until I’m comfortable enough to have sex without a condom, we shouldn’t have sex at all. Part of me feels like that’s skipping a step, that the way for me to become comfortable with condomless sex is by first having sex with a condom. But another part of me wonders if I’m being unreasonable. Like I said, we’re protected and clean. So is sex without a condom actually not that big of an ask? Am I making things unnecessarily complicated? submitted by /u/MasterpieceAway3445 [link] [comments]
My boyfriend wants to have sex without a condom. I guess technically it’s safe because we’re seeing each other exclusively, we’ve both gotten STD checks, and I’m on the pill.
But I still don’t feel comfortable without a condom. I think it’s the intimacy aspect. I only just met my boyfriend one month ago. I have had very few sexual partners, and I like to take things kind of slow. For me, sex without a condom feels like a milestone that I don’t think we’ve reached yet.
But he says he can’t stay hard while wearing a condom and in past exclusive relationships he’s never worn one. So he’s decided that until I’m comfortable enough to have sex without a condom, we shouldn’t have sex at all.
Part of me feels like that’s skipping a step, that the way for me to become comfortable with condomless sex is by first having sex with a condom. But another part of me wonders if I’m being unreasonable. Like I said, we’re protected and clean. So is sex without a condom actually not that big of an ask? Am I making things unnecessarily complicated?
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