Gf can’t orgasm doing anything /u/BradleySwinson Sex

So my (28M) gf(25F) have been together almost a year. We haven’t had sex yet, she is a virgin, I’ve been with a few women. We’ve definitely been trying the entire time, she just can’t handle much pain and I can’t even get a finger in. We mainly do oral, and she uses her vibrator but she can’t orgasm. She gets close but she says she hasn’t been able to even a little bit before we started dating. It’s getting to the point where I’m not enjoying our sexy time together that much anymore since we can’t have sex and she can’t cum. When we do sexy stuff and she gets close but it fizzles out it feels more like a chore that never gets finished. She won’t go to a doctor to check her or give her advice. Does anyone have any advice on either issue?

So my (28M) gf(25F) have been together almost a year. We haven’t had sex yet, she is a virgin, I’ve been with a few women. We’ve definitely been trying the entire time, she just can’t handle much pain and I can’t even get a finger in. We mainly do oral, and she uses her vibrator but she can’t orgasm. She gets close but she says she hasn’t been able to even a little bit before we started dating. It’s getting to the point where I’m not enjoying our sexy time together that much anymore since we can’t have sex and she can’t cum. When we do sexy stuff and she gets close but it fizzles out it feels more like a chore that never gets finished. She won’t go to a doctor to check her or give her advice. Does anyone have any advice on either issue?