How to help partner with trauma and communicate importance of sex for me? /u/Simpleplan3030 Sex

So ive been seeing a girl for a week, and anyway we were in bed last night making out and she told me how she struggled with sex.

She told me this was due to some long trauma and she has only done it maybe 3 times in her life. With her ex of 2 years she barely did it.

She didnt say it wouldnt happen but she said it would just take longer than other girls.

I want to convey to her that this is an important element of the relationship to me so we can stake concrete steps to resolving this but at the same time i want her to know its not a dealbreaker and she has to be comfortable.

Tips?

So ive been seeing a girl for a week, and anyway we were in bed last night making out and she told me how she struggled with sex.

She told me this was due to some long trauma and she has only done it maybe 3 times in her life. With her ex of 2 years she barely did it.

She didnt say it wouldnt happen but she said it would just take longer than other girls.

I want to convey to her that this is an important element of the relationship to me so we can stake concrete steps to resolving this but at the same time i want her to know its not a dealbreaker and she has to be comfortable.

Tips?