Hi everyone, I’m (32m) currently dating a girl (25f) I met through work, she was in the midst of a relationship coming to an end and we grew towards each other. Because of all that the past 3 months have been very complicated and we took things extremely slowly. Two weeks ago we kissed for the first time since she didn’t want that to occur while her ex partner was still somewhat around. The dates are becoming more frequent and now that there is more room and time for each other she has been giving me plenty of signs that she wants to hang out in the evenings and spend the night together.
We haven’t been sexually intimate yet, barely much physical contact besides frequent hugs and handholding. Now I’m very inexperienced, haven’t been with a girl that way in over 6 years and even that was limited. I have tried to tell her that multiple times but she tends to brush it off to me being modest. I crave to have that intimacy with her, and she does with me. But I am honestly deadly nervous about it all. I would love to just hang out and take things slow, maybe something happens naturally. But I’m afraid she thinks differently about it and I’m not sure how to tell her that without making it seem like I’m not interested in her sexually. I’ve struggled with anxiety induced ED and haven’t told her about this either, I still feel like perhaps with her it won’t be as big of an issue since we’ve grown pretty comfortable around each other.
In short, she has this idea of me being an all confident man that is probably a confident lover. But I’m a nervous wreck that is rather inexperienced and afraid to disappoint and in turn scare her off.
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r/sex Hi everyone, I’m (32m) currently dating a girl (25f) I met through work, she was in the midst of a relationship coming to an end and we grew towards each other. Because of all that the past 3 months have been very complicated and we took things extremely slowly. Two weeks ago we kissed for the first time since she didn’t want that to occur while her ex partner was still somewhat around. The dates are becoming more frequent and now that there is more room and time for each other she has been giving me plenty of signs that she wants to hang out in the evenings and spend the night together. We haven’t been sexually intimate yet, barely much physical contact besides frequent hugs and handholding. Now I’m very inexperienced, haven’t been with a girl that way in over 6 years and even that was limited. I have tried to tell her that multiple times but she tends to brush it off to me being modest. I crave to have that intimacy with her, and she does with me. But I am honestly deadly nervous about it all. I would love to just hang out and take things slow, maybe something happens naturally. But I’m afraid she thinks differently about it and I’m not sure how to tell her that without making it seem like I’m not interested in her sexually. I’ve struggled with anxiety induced ED and haven’t told her about this either, I still feel like perhaps with her it won’t be as big of an issue since we’ve grown pretty comfortable around each other. In short, she has this idea of me being an all confident man that is probably a confident lover. But I’m a nervous wreck that is rather inexperienced and afraid to disappoint and in turn scare her off. submitted by /u/WorryingBalloon [link] [comments]
Hi everyone, I’m (32m) currently dating a girl (25f) I met through work, she was in the midst of a relationship coming to an end and we grew towards each other. Because of all that the past 3 months have been very complicated and we took things extremely slowly. Two weeks ago we kissed for the first time since she didn’t want that to occur while her ex partner was still somewhat around. The dates are becoming more frequent and now that there is more room and time for each other she has been giving me plenty of signs that she wants to hang out in the evenings and spend the night together.
We haven’t been sexually intimate yet, barely much physical contact besides frequent hugs and handholding. Now I’m very inexperienced, haven’t been with a girl that way in over 6 years and even that was limited. I have tried to tell her that multiple times but she tends to brush it off to me being modest. I crave to have that intimacy with her, and she does with me. But I am honestly deadly nervous about it all. I would love to just hang out and take things slow, maybe something happens naturally. But I’m afraid she thinks differently about it and I’m not sure how to tell her that without making it seem like I’m not interested in her sexually. I’ve struggled with anxiety induced ED and haven’t told her about this either, I still feel like perhaps with her it won’t be as big of an issue since we’ve grown pretty comfortable around each other.
In short, she has this idea of me being an all confident man that is probably a confident lover. But I’m a nervous wreck that is rather inexperienced and afraid to disappoint and in turn scare her off.
submitted by /u/WorryingBalloon
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