Hey all, idk if this is the right tag but let’s go with it. I’m a 21 year old male, and I’m engaged to my 20 year old fiance (young I know). We haven’t done it yet because we both want to wait until marriage. However, we often discuss it and things surrounding it because why not.
We’ve talked about positions, places to do it, conditions all these things, even things like blindfolding and more kinky things like that. I however brought up the idea of like role-playing or cosplaying/dressing up and she got pretty upset at that. She felt like she should be good enough and she doesn’t want to be anybody else. It took her a little to get over me even suggesting that, but it’d definitely be something I’m interested in when I’m married..
My question is, am I overthinking things? Should I just be focused on wedding night and not far future adventures? Was it rude for me to suggest something like roleplay/cosplay? Could she still change her mind as it’s way to early?
I dunno, maybe I’m thinking too much about post vanilla sex when I should really be focusing on the basics. What do you guys think.
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r/sex Hey all, idk if this is the right tag but let’s go with it. I’m a 21 year old male, and I’m engaged to my 20 year old fiance (young I know). We haven’t done it yet because we both want to wait until marriage. However, we often discuss it and things surrounding it because why not. We’ve talked about positions, places to do it, conditions all these things, even things like blindfolding and more kinky things like that. I however brought up the idea of like role-playing or cosplaying/dressing up and she got pretty upset at that. She felt like she should be good enough and she doesn’t want to be anybody else. It took her a little to get over me even suggesting that, but it’d definitely be something I’m interested in when I’m married.. My question is, am I overthinking things? Should I just be focused on wedding night and not far future adventures? Was it rude for me to suggest something like roleplay/cosplay? Could she still change her mind as it’s way to early? I dunno, maybe I’m thinking too much about post vanilla sex when I should really be focusing on the basics. What do you guys think. submitted by /u/ACheeseEnthusiast [link] [comments]
Hey all, idk if this is the right tag but let’s go with it. I’m a 21 year old male, and I’m engaged to my 20 year old fiance (young I know). We haven’t done it yet because we both want to wait until marriage. However, we often discuss it and things surrounding it because why not.
We’ve talked about positions, places to do it, conditions all these things, even things like blindfolding and more kinky things like that. I however brought up the idea of like role-playing or cosplaying/dressing up and she got pretty upset at that. She felt like she should be good enough and she doesn’t want to be anybody else. It took her a little to get over me even suggesting that, but it’d definitely be something I’m interested in when I’m married..
My question is, am I overthinking things? Should I just be focused on wedding night and not far future adventures? Was it rude for me to suggest something like roleplay/cosplay? Could she still change her mind as it’s way to early?
I dunno, maybe I’m thinking too much about post vanilla sex when I should really be focusing on the basics. What do you guys think.
submitted by /u/ACheeseEnthusiast
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