Can’t orgasm from PIV sex /u/Humble_Distance_4772 Sex

So my and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We both have a really high sex drive and have never gone a week without it. Everything is great about our sex life except one thing bothers me. I have never finished from PIV sex. We have PIV sex multiple times a week and my bf enjoys it a lot and has always finished quick from it. He lasts five minutes on average and sometimes even less. It is never enough for me to even start enjoying it. After he finishes, he still always makes sure I’m taken care of and loves giving me head. I enjoy it a lot as well and always finish from it. This is usually how sex goes for us. No matter if I give him head or we have PIV sex, after he finishes he always finishes me off with oral sex. All though I enjoy oral sex a lot I still feel upset that it’s the only way I orgasm. Since we do have sex almost every day it also gets boring sometimes. I always switch it up for him by trying different positions during PIV sex, and also giving him bjs and he enjoys all of it but I always just get oral. I have talked to him about it before but nothing ever changes. I don’t know if maybe he just doesn’t last long enough to make me orgasm or maybe if it’s something wrong with me. It has become an issue lately because he does care about my needs and always wants to make sure I finish but I told him that oral has just become a routine at this point and I get it so much that it doesn’t excite me all the time. I don’t know what to do at this point. I don’t want to make him feel bad for finishing quick but I also just want to enjoy PIV sex but he finishes to quick to let me enjoy it and orgasm from it. I have also asked him if it was okay for me to use sex toys to satisfy myself but he is not okay with it and I respect him so I don’t use any. Is it my fault that maybe I just cant orgasm from PIV ? Im worried that Im never gonna be satisfied in that way.

So my and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We both have a really high sex drive and have never gone a week without it. Everything is great about our sex life except one thing bothers me. I have never finished from PIV sex. We have PIV sex multiple times a week and my bf enjoys it a lot and has always finished quick from it. He lasts five minutes on average and sometimes even less. It is never enough for me to even start enjoying it. After he finishes, he still always makes sure I’m taken care of and loves giving me head. I enjoy it a lot as well and always finish from it. This is usually how sex goes for us. No matter if I give him head or we have PIV sex, after he finishes he always finishes me off with oral sex. All though I enjoy oral sex a lot I still feel upset that it’s the only way I orgasm. Since we do have sex almost every day it also gets boring sometimes. I always switch it up for him by trying different positions during PIV sex, and also giving him bjs and he enjoys all of it but I always just get oral. I have talked to him about it before but nothing ever changes. I don’t know if maybe he just doesn’t last long enough to make me orgasm or maybe if it’s something wrong with me. It has become an issue lately because he does care about my needs and always wants to make sure I finish but I told him that oral has just become a routine at this point and I get it so much that it doesn’t excite me all the time. I don’t know what to do at this point. I don’t want to make him feel bad for finishing quick but I also just want to enjoy PIV sex but he finishes to quick to let me enjoy it and orgasm from it. I have also asked him if it was okay for me to use sex toys to satisfy myself but he is not okay with it and I respect him so I don’t use any. Is it my fault that maybe I just cant orgasm from PIV ? Im worried that Im never gonna be satisfied in that way.