A few days ago we were having sex and my wife said she’d like to have a dick in her pussy and mouth at the same time. This was after switching from oral to PIV. I was surprised but happy to hear her convey a fantasy. I went with it and said something along the lines of yeah I bet you’d love how that feels. Shortly after this we both reached orgasam (me first but made sure she got hers too) and got cleaned up for bed.
I tried bringing it up earlier today and she just said stop, we’re not talking about this. I had simply said “hey I was thinking about what you said the other night. What do you think about trying that with a toy next time?” I get she’s from a conservative family where subjects like sex are taboo but i wish she could talk to me. I’ve asked her repeatedly over the years what her fantasies are, going as far as telling her even if she thinks it could never happen I’d like to hear what they are. She’s always just said she doesn’t know and just likes what we do or says ahe doesn’t want to talk about it. How do I get her to open up and actually tell me what she desires?
I’ll note She’s open to trying things when I suggest, but only if brought up in the moment. If I suggest something to try/do in the bedroom while we’re not in the bedroom she shuts down the conversation.
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r/sex A few days ago we were having sex and my wife said she’d like to have a dick in her pussy and mouth at the same time. This was after switching from oral to PIV. I was surprised but happy to hear her convey a fantasy. I went with it and said something along the lines of yeah I bet you’d love how that feels. Shortly after this we both reached orgasam (me first but made sure she got hers too) and got cleaned up for bed. I tried bringing it up earlier today and she just said stop, we’re not talking about this. I had simply said “hey I was thinking about what you said the other night. What do you think about trying that with a toy next time?” I get she’s from a conservative family where subjects like sex are taboo but i wish she could talk to me. I’ve asked her repeatedly over the years what her fantasies are, going as far as telling her even if she thinks it could never happen I’d like to hear what they are. She’s always just said she doesn’t know and just likes what we do or says ahe doesn’t want to talk about it. How do I get her to open up and actually tell me what she desires? I’ll note She’s open to trying things when I suggest, but only if brought up in the moment. If I suggest something to try/do in the bedroom while we’re not in the bedroom she shuts down the conversation. submitted by /u/throwraRareFault5423 [link] [comments]
A few days ago we were having sex and my wife said she’d like to have a dick in her pussy and mouth at the same time. This was after switching from oral to PIV. I was surprised but happy to hear her convey a fantasy. I went with it and said something along the lines of yeah I bet you’d love how that feels. Shortly after this we both reached orgasam (me first but made sure she got hers too) and got cleaned up for bed.
I tried bringing it up earlier today and she just said stop, we’re not talking about this. I had simply said “hey I was thinking about what you said the other night. What do you think about trying that with a toy next time?” I get she’s from a conservative family where subjects like sex are taboo but i wish she could talk to me. I’ve asked her repeatedly over the years what her fantasies are, going as far as telling her even if she thinks it could never happen I’d like to hear what they are. She’s always just said she doesn’t know and just likes what we do or says ahe doesn’t want to talk about it. How do I get her to open up and actually tell me what she desires?
I’ll note She’s open to trying things when I suggest, but only if brought up in the moment. If I suggest something to try/do in the bedroom while we’re not in the bedroom she shuts down the conversation.
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