So I’ve always had this issue I think but I’m not sure why. I mean using tampons and two fingers hasn’t been an issue. But when I’m on my own and use a dildo, I feel like I need lube to keep things wet? I’ve tried using a water-based lube but it just feels like it doesn’t do much. It does hurt less but still kinda uncomfortable.
Recently I’ve tried having sex, and it hurt when he first went in and during it. I’m assuming it’s cause I don’t get wet enough. I feel like I’ve kinda got a mental block when it comes to having sex cause I’m worried about not being able to cum which throws me off. I know I should try lube, I just wonder how much good it’ll do if it still hurts when using lube with a dildo.
I WANT to have sex and enjoy it, it’s just frustrating that it hurts 🙁
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r/sex So I’ve always had this issue I think but I’m not sure why. I mean using tampons and two fingers hasn’t been an issue. But when I’m on my own and use a dildo, I feel like I need lube to keep things wet? I’ve tried using a water-based lube but it just feels like it doesn’t do much. It does hurt less but still kinda uncomfortable. Recently I’ve tried having sex, and it hurt when he first went in and during it. I’m assuming it’s cause I don’t get wet enough. I feel like I’ve kinda got a mental block when it comes to having sex cause I’m worried about not being able to cum which throws me off. I know I should try lube, I just wonder how much good it’ll do if it still hurts when using lube with a dildo. I WANT to have sex and enjoy it, it’s just frustrating that it hurts 🙁 submitted by /u/TheArchives0 [link] [comments]
So I’ve always had this issue I think but I’m not sure why. I mean using tampons and two fingers hasn’t been an issue. But when I’m on my own and use a dildo, I feel like I need lube to keep things wet? I’ve tried using a water-based lube but it just feels like it doesn’t do much. It does hurt less but still kinda uncomfortable.
Recently I’ve tried having sex, and it hurt when he first went in and during it. I’m assuming it’s cause I don’t get wet enough. I feel like I’ve kinda got a mental block when it comes to having sex cause I’m worried about not being able to cum which throws me off. I know I should try lube, I just wonder how much good it’ll do if it still hurts when using lube with a dildo.
I WANT to have sex and enjoy it, it’s just frustrating that it hurts 🙁
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