I’m 42(f) and in perimenopause, sometimes my thoughts and my body are not on the same page and my body just does not want to be touched. It’s not fun and it is frustrating for me. My wife has been in denial for a long time about what I’m going through and even after she realized and accepted the stage I am in , she tells me that I need to see a sex therapist. I’ve been dealing with this from her for a year now and I’m just now starting to get mad. I’ve been depressed and extremely tired because I’m literally going through midlife and she is adding this on top of it. I like sex, I enjoy it .. if we have sex 1 night , I’m ready the next day and she is not. She wants to have sex 1 time every 4 or 5 days and that routine just shuts me down. I don’t know what to do.. im pretty pissed off at this point and I don’t even want to have sex with her. I feel like maybe she is just criticizing me and judging me because I am not performing the way she wants me to.. I don’t know ! But I don’t like the way I feel.
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r/sex I’m 42(f) and in perimenopause, sometimes my thoughts and my body are not on the same page and my body just does not want to be touched. It’s not fun and it is frustrating for me. My wife has been in denial for a long time about what I’m going through and even after she realized and accepted the stage I am in , she tells me that I need to see a sex therapist. I’ve been dealing with this from her for a year now and I’m just now starting to get mad. I’ve been depressed and extremely tired because I’m literally going through midlife and she is adding this on top of it. I like sex, I enjoy it .. if we have sex 1 night , I’m ready the next day and she is not. She wants to have sex 1 time every 4 or 5 days and that routine just shuts me down. I don’t know what to do.. im pretty pissed off at this point and I don’t even want to have sex with her. I feel like maybe she is just criticizing me and judging me because I am not performing the way she wants me to.. I don’t know ! But I don’t like the way I feel. submitted by /u/ComedianNo3193 [link] [comments]
I’m 42(f) and in perimenopause, sometimes my thoughts and my body are not on the same page and my body just does not want to be touched. It’s not fun and it is frustrating for me. My wife has been in denial for a long time about what I’m going through and even after she realized and accepted the stage I am in , she tells me that I need to see a sex therapist. I’ve been dealing with this from her for a year now and I’m just now starting to get mad. I’ve been depressed and extremely tired because I’m literally going through midlife and she is adding this on top of it. I like sex, I enjoy it .. if we have sex 1 night , I’m ready the next day and she is not. She wants to have sex 1 time every 4 or 5 days and that routine just shuts me down. I don’t know what to do.. im pretty pissed off at this point and I don’t even want to have sex with her. I feel like maybe she is just criticizing me and judging me because I am not performing the way she wants me to.. I don’t know ! But I don’t like the way I feel.
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