(20f) I lost my virginity last year and it still hurts during penetration. I did know on some level i probably would have some problems regarding that since i have had some sort of pelvic operation, not exactly in the pelvic but around that area. Anyways no one told me that i would be feeling pain during sex, or maybe thats not even connected or maybe it is i dont know. Example if i would to be having missonary it would be nearly impossible to be having sex because of the pain, but if my pelvic is tilted upward example doggy its a little easier but then after awhile when pulling out it hurts and sometimes i think it would be better if it just were stuck in there. The pain do go away after sometime but then the mood is kinda ruined and i have tried my best for it not to become ruin. Like rubbing my clitoris but for some reason i cant feel any sensation there when i usually do when alone. Im just tired of feeling like a failure when i dont want to have sex because of this pain, when i really love the intimacy and comfort it gives me! I just need some insight and stuff because i really dont know what it is! Sorry if I misspelled english is not my first language! Thank u for any advice u have!
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r/sex (20f) I lost my virginity last year and it still hurts during penetration. I did know on some level i probably would have some problems regarding that since i have had some sort of pelvic operation, not exactly in the pelvic but around that area. Anyways no one told me that i would be feeling pain during sex, or maybe thats not even connected or maybe it is i dont know. Example if i would to be having missonary it would be nearly impossible to be having sex because of the pain, but if my pelvic is tilted upward example doggy its a little easier but then after awhile when pulling out it hurts and sometimes i think it would be better if it just were stuck in there. The pain do go away after sometime but then the mood is kinda ruined and i have tried my best for it not to become ruin. Like rubbing my clitoris but for some reason i cant feel any sensation there when i usually do when alone. Im just tired of feeling like a failure when i dont want to have sex because of this pain, when i really love the intimacy and comfort it gives me! I just need some insight and stuff because i really dont know what it is! Sorry if I misspelled english is not my first language! Thank u for any advice u have! submitted by /u/Adventurous-Egg-6935 [link] [comments]
(20f) I lost my virginity last year and it still hurts during penetration. I did know on some level i probably would have some problems regarding that since i have had some sort of pelvic operation, not exactly in the pelvic but around that area. Anyways no one told me that i would be feeling pain during sex, or maybe thats not even connected or maybe it is i dont know. Example if i would to be having missonary it would be nearly impossible to be having sex because of the pain, but if my pelvic is tilted upward example doggy its a little easier but then after awhile when pulling out it hurts and sometimes i think it would be better if it just were stuck in there. The pain do go away after sometime but then the mood is kinda ruined and i have tried my best for it not to become ruin. Like rubbing my clitoris but for some reason i cant feel any sensation there when i usually do when alone. Im just tired of feeling like a failure when i dont want to have sex because of this pain, when i really love the intimacy and comfort it gives me! I just need some insight and stuff because i really dont know what it is! Sorry if I misspelled english is not my first language! Thank u for any advice u have!
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