Issue today with erection ( partner obviously unhappy) /u/Dapper_Benefit7377 Sex

Random one but has anyone struggled to get an erection?

My partner who I’ve been seeing for only 6 months invited me over for a ‘quickie’ so to speak during work hours.

But for the first time ever during sex it just wasn’t going up.

She was obviously not happy about this and I was embarrassed myself, it’s hit me back a bit and it feels awkward now as she feels unattractive and I don’t fancy her etc.. I can completely understand this. Feel like she will go off me now.

The thing is she is really hot and I love being around her and having sex with her.

I’m not sure as it was a spur of the moment thing and I lied to my work colleagues where I was going it may have put me off.

Is this normal? Worried it’s going to happen again now.

Now have massive anxiety that she has gone off me and rightly she will feel all kinds of feelings.

This has never happened before and we’ve had sex countless times.

Is this normal? And how do I get over the anxiety of how have because of this because it’s really got me down tonight and my partner who I don’t live with feels distant.

(38M)

Random one but has anyone struggled to get an erection?

My partner who I’ve been seeing for only 6 months invited me over for a ‘quickie’ so to speak during work hours.

But for the first time ever during sex it just wasn’t going up.

She was obviously not happy about this and I was embarrassed myself, it’s hit me back a bit and it feels awkward now as she feels unattractive and I don’t fancy her etc.. I can completely understand this. Feel like she will go off me now.

The thing is she is really hot and I love being around her and having sex with her.

I’m not sure as it was a spur of the moment thing and I lied to my work colleagues where I was going it may have put me off.

Is this normal? Worried it’s going to happen again now.

Now have massive anxiety that she has gone off me and rightly she will feel all kinds of feelings.

This has never happened before and we’ve had sex countless times.

Is this normal? And how do I get over the anxiety of how have because of this because it’s really got me down tonight and my partner who I don’t live with feels distant.

(38M)