I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (20M) for almost 2 months now. It’s my first relationship and we started having sex 1 month ago.
Obviously he’s my first partner and he has quite a bit more sexual experience compared to me, so I know I was going to have to learn how to have sex, but I honestly feel that I am kind of bad at it.
I try to be active because I feel bad that he has to do the moving most of the time, but I have a very weak body for various health reasons, so it’s difficult.
When I try to get on top I get “tired” after a minute or two of riding him. It’s hard to give blowjobs because he’s big, I have to open my mouth very wide just to take him in (even then i cant get the full length without gagging) and I don’t know how to go more than a few minutes of bobbing my head before my jaw or neck gets really sore. Same goes for handjobs. I find it difficult to keep a fast, consistent, and hard rhythm for more than a few minutes, which is usually what it takes for him to cum.
I feel SO fucking lame. He says its fine, we usually have sex multiple times for hours, and he always cums every time we do it, so I know he at least doesn’t hate it. But it’s definitely a huge insecurity of mine and I’m not sure what to do about it 😭
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r/sex I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (20M) for almost 2 months now. It’s my first relationship and we started having sex 1 month ago. Obviously he’s my first partner and he has quite a bit more sexual experience compared to me, so I know I was going to have to learn how to have sex, but I honestly feel that I am kind of bad at it. I try to be active because I feel bad that he has to do the moving most of the time, but I have a very weak body for various health reasons, so it’s difficult. When I try to get on top I get “tired” after a minute or two of riding him. It’s hard to give blowjobs because he’s big, I have to open my mouth very wide just to take him in (even then i cant get the full length without gagging) and I don’t know how to go more than a few minutes of bobbing my head before my jaw or neck gets really sore. Same goes for handjobs. I find it difficult to keep a fast, consistent, and hard rhythm for more than a few minutes, which is usually what it takes for him to cum. I feel SO fucking lame. He says its fine, we usually have sex multiple times for hours, and he always cums every time we do it, so I know he at least doesn’t hate it. But it’s definitely a huge insecurity of mine and I’m not sure what to do about it 😭 submitted by /u/EnvironmentalMix5436 [link] [comments]
I (19F) have been dating my boyfriend (20M) for almost 2 months now. It’s my first relationship and we started having sex 1 month ago.
Obviously he’s my first partner and he has quite a bit more sexual experience compared to me, so I know I was going to have to learn how to have sex, but I honestly feel that I am kind of bad at it.
I try to be active because I feel bad that he has to do the moving most of the time, but I have a very weak body for various health reasons, so it’s difficult.
When I try to get on top I get “tired” after a minute or two of riding him. It’s hard to give blowjobs because he’s big, I have to open my mouth very wide just to take him in (even then i cant get the full length without gagging) and I don’t know how to go more than a few minutes of bobbing my head before my jaw or neck gets really sore. Same goes for handjobs. I find it difficult to keep a fast, consistent, and hard rhythm for more than a few minutes, which is usually what it takes for him to cum.
I feel SO fucking lame. He says its fine, we usually have sex multiple times for hours, and he always cums every time we do it, so I know he at least doesn’t hate it. But it’s definitely a huge insecurity of mine and I’m not sure what to do about it 😭
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