ED, size, physical difference /u/Key-Researcher-3636 Sex

Hi. So my husband and I are struggling with sex. He (36m) me (36f) normally have a great sex life. But lately ED seems to be hitting us hard. I’m trying to not take it personally. But it’s challenging. My partner has gained weight. I feel like this has impacted his “size” so to speak. Like there is less length now. Is this a thing? Am I in my head? Also, if I feel less friction while he’s in me, as in he’s not filling me. Can he? How do I fix this on my part? I love my husband and my marriage and want a healthy sex life. We do porn, foreplay, lingerie, and Ed meds. But they’re expensive and we go about 3-4x a week so the sessions he doesn’t take it, we’re struggling. I build him up. But as soon as it’s me on top, soft he goes. What gives? How do I prevent my wetness? That seems to cause him to slip out, too.

Hi. So my husband and I are struggling with sex. He (36m) me (36f) normally have a great sex life. But lately ED seems to be hitting us hard. I’m trying to not take it personally. But it’s challenging. My partner has gained weight. I feel like this has impacted his “size” so to speak. Like there is less length now. Is this a thing? Am I in my head? Also, if I feel less friction while he’s in me, as in he’s not filling me. Can he? How do I fix this on my part? I love my husband and my marriage and want a healthy sex life. We do porn, foreplay, lingerie, and Ed meds. But they’re expensive and we go about 3-4x a week so the sessions he doesn’t take it, we’re struggling. I build him up. But as soon as it’s me on top, soft he goes. What gives? How do I prevent my wetness? That seems to cause him to slip out, too.