Do you feel satisfied even if you don’t orgasm? /u/Ok-Coast-5095 Sex

Been with my ex (we’re each other’s first) for most my adult life and while we usually both finish, she assures me that there are times where she’s okay not getting an orgasm (rejecting oral) and that she just likes the act of being intimate.

Currently, casually hooking up with another girl that has a higher sex drive. I like to give oral and think i’m good at it with how her and my ex respond to it, but I don’t believe she has had an orgasm in the two times we’ve hooked up (not enough time to go for more rounds). She says she enjoys our hookups but I’m wondering if she’s just being nice or if having fun with sex even without getting an orgasm is more common for women than I thought?

Been with my ex (we’re each other’s first) for most my adult life and while we usually both finish, she assures me that there are times where she’s okay not getting an orgasm (rejecting oral) and that she just likes the act of being intimate.

Currently, casually hooking up with another girl that has a higher sex drive. I like to give oral and think i’m good at it with how her and my ex respond to it, but I don’t believe she has had an orgasm in the two times we’ve hooked up (not enough time to go for more rounds). She says she enjoys our hookups but I’m wondering if she’s just being nice or if having fun with sex even without getting an orgasm is more common for women than I thought?