I posted this yesterday in r/newparents and r/parents, but I’m thinking I might get better (and more) feedback in this sub.
First of all, I didn’t realize how common this feeling is. I see it on IG constantly and several posts on parenting subs.
But, I want to know how to move past/get over feeling touched out or overtouched?
I have this internal struggle lately where I really really want to have sex with my husband. I’m usually fairly high libido and I’m 28 (this is like peak sexy times IMHO). But then by the end of the day, I’m touched out from holding the baby, baby wanting to be held, baby crawling after me if I’m trying to do absolutely anything- and I can’t find the will to jump my husband’s bones like I know I want to.
To my husband’s credit, since I told him I’ve been feeling touched out, he’s been very understanding and checks in with me at the end of the day where my touch meter is.
But on the days that I’m really touched out (which is always lately) it doesn’t matter how respectful he is of my touch meter, how good he is to me, how good of a father he is, or how badly I was wanting him that morning. My brain just can’t get past it and it’s really pissing me off…
How can I get past being touched out and back to getting the touch mama actually wants? How do you reset your touch meter so you can be intimate with your partner?
And also, not just sex, mama needs a professional massage…
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r/sex I posted this yesterday in r/newparents and r/parents, but I’m thinking I might get better (and more) feedback in this sub. First of all, I didn’t realize how common this feeling is. I see it on IG constantly and several posts on parenting subs. But, I want to know how to move past/get over feeling touched out or overtouched? I have this internal struggle lately where I really really want to have sex with my husband. I’m usually fairly high libido and I’m 28 (this is like peak sexy times IMHO). But then by the end of the day, I’m touched out from holding the baby, baby wanting to be held, baby crawling after me if I’m trying to do absolutely anything- and I can’t find the will to jump my husband’s bones like I know I want to. To my husband’s credit, since I told him I’ve been feeling touched out, he’s been very understanding and checks in with me at the end of the day where my touch meter is. But on the days that I’m really touched out (which is always lately) it doesn’t matter how respectful he is of my touch meter, how good he is to me, how good of a father he is, or how badly I was wanting him that morning. My brain just can’t get past it and it’s really pissing me off… How can I get past being touched out and back to getting the touch mama actually wants? How do you reset your touch meter so you can be intimate with your partner? And also, not just sex, mama needs a professional massage… submitted by /u/Scared-Caramel-9335 [link] [comments]
I posted this yesterday in r/newparents and r/parents, but I’m thinking I might get better (and more) feedback in this sub.
First of all, I didn’t realize how common this feeling is. I see it on IG constantly and several posts on parenting subs.
But, I want to know how to move past/get over feeling touched out or overtouched?
I have this internal struggle lately where I really really want to have sex with my husband. I’m usually fairly high libido and I’m 28 (this is like peak sexy times IMHO). But then by the end of the day, I’m touched out from holding the baby, baby wanting to be held, baby crawling after me if I’m trying to do absolutely anything- and I can’t find the will to jump my husband’s bones like I know I want to.
To my husband’s credit, since I told him I’ve been feeling touched out, he’s been very understanding and checks in with me at the end of the day where my touch meter is.
But on the days that I’m really touched out (which is always lately) it doesn’t matter how respectful he is of my touch meter, how good he is to me, how good of a father he is, or how badly I was wanting him that morning. My brain just can’t get past it and it’s really pissing me off…
How can I get past being touched out and back to getting the touch mama actually wants? How do you reset your touch meter so you can be intimate with your partner?
And also, not just sex, mama needs a professional massage…
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