My partner (M20) and I (F19) have been together for almost a year and don’t get me wrong he’s good in bed, but i’ve always had fantasies and ideas of my own that i’ve never felt comfortable bringing up in the past with anyone. Last night I brought up the idea of bringing a toy, maybe a vibrator into the mix. He absolutely lost it was almost in tears with laughter lol. But he absolutely dragged the idea through the mud. I suggested restraints, even holding my arms down or ANYTHING. same reaction. by this point i was completely embarrassed and felt so so awkward. he noticed and was just like “well do whatever you want to do”. ??? i’m not going to tie myself up 😂. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable in any way but i just want to spice things up a bit. Just haven’t got a clue how to communicate this to him without getting the piss taken out of me. His reaction has almost steered me away from bothering again, i felt humiliated.
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r/sex My partner (M20) and I (F19) have been together for almost a year and don’t get me wrong he’s good in bed, but i’ve always had fantasies and ideas of my own that i’ve never felt comfortable bringing up in the past with anyone. Last night I brought up the idea of bringing a toy, maybe a vibrator into the mix. He absolutely lost it was almost in tears with laughter lol. But he absolutely dragged the idea through the mud. I suggested restraints, even holding my arms down or ANYTHING. same reaction. by this point i was completely embarrassed and felt so so awkward. he noticed and was just like “well do whatever you want to do”. ??? i’m not going to tie myself up 😂. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable in any way but i just want to spice things up a bit. Just haven’t got a clue how to communicate this to him without getting the piss taken out of me. His reaction has almost steered me away from bothering again, i felt humiliated. submitted by /u/myspaceval [link] [comments]
My partner (M20) and I (F19) have been together for almost a year and don’t get me wrong he’s good in bed, but i’ve always had fantasies and ideas of my own that i’ve never felt comfortable bringing up in the past with anyone. Last night I brought up the idea of bringing a toy, maybe a vibrator into the mix. He absolutely lost it was almost in tears with laughter lol. But he absolutely dragged the idea through the mud. I suggested restraints, even holding my arms down or ANYTHING. same reaction. by this point i was completely embarrassed and felt so so awkward. he noticed and was just like “well do whatever you want to do”. ??? i’m not going to tie myself up 😂. I don’t want to make him uncomfortable in any way but i just want to spice things up a bit. Just haven’t got a clue how to communicate this to him without getting the piss taken out of me. His reaction has almost steered me away from bothering again, i felt humiliated.
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