So basically I (17f) have been dating this guy (17m) for about a month but we have been talking for around 3 months now. He’s really great however recently a few issues have come up. One of the things is he is too obsessed with my boobs. I know this sounds weird but he will take every and any possibility to touch them. At one point I wanted to do his hair and he said I had to flash him if I wanted to, I accidentally elbowed him or something and he said I had to flash him 3 times now. We will be making out and he just randomly looks under my shirt. Recently, we were making our and lifted my shirt, I put my shirt back down but he kept putting it back up no matter how many times I would pull it back down or he would move my hands if I was covering myself. At some point he took my arms to the side and held them down so he could look at my chest. I know if I really told him to stop he would but I was visibly uncomfortable and he shouldn’t have done that. This just made me really uncomfortable. I should’ve definitely set more clear boundaries however it was pretty obvious in my behavior that I was uncomfortable. He says things like why can’t I look at them and he says that as long as I don’t have a reason why he should be able to, he acts like he’s entitled to it, which he’s most definitely not. And then because I kept pulling my shirt back down he was like ” I’ll just take it off” and I said something along the lines of ” you can’t do that I won’t let you” and he replied with “well technically I could”. He also shoves his tongue down my throat which really isn’t great.
Anyways I was kind of planning on breaking up with him but after that night I definitely will. I just want to make sure that these things aren’t normal or if they could possibly be early warning signs.
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r/sex So basically I (17f) have been dating this guy (17m) for about a month but we have been talking for around 3 months now. He’s really great however recently a few issues have come up. One of the things is he is too obsessed with my boobs. I know this sounds weird but he will take every and any possibility to touch them. At one point I wanted to do his hair and he said I had to flash him if I wanted to, I accidentally elbowed him or something and he said I had to flash him 3 times now. We will be making out and he just randomly looks under my shirt. Recently, we were making our and lifted my shirt, I put my shirt back down but he kept putting it back up no matter how many times I would pull it back down or he would move my hands if I was covering myself. At some point he took my arms to the side and held them down so he could look at my chest. I know if I really told him to stop he would but I was visibly uncomfortable and he shouldn’t have done that. This just made me really uncomfortable. I should’ve definitely set more clear boundaries however it was pretty obvious in my behavior that I was uncomfortable. He says things like why can’t I look at them and he says that as long as I don’t have a reason why he should be able to, he acts like he’s entitled to it, which he’s most definitely not. And then because I kept pulling my shirt back down he was like ” I’ll just take it off” and I said something along the lines of ” you can’t do that I won’t let you” and he replied with “well technically I could”. He also shoves his tongue down my throat which really isn’t great. Anyways I was kind of planning on breaking up with him but after that night I definitely will. I just want to make sure that these things aren’t normal or if they could possibly be early warning signs. submitted by /u/Various-Frame-7123 [link] [comments]
So basically I (17f) have been dating this guy (17m) for about a month but we have been talking for around 3 months now. He’s really great however recently a few issues have come up. One of the things is he is too obsessed with my boobs. I know this sounds weird but he will take every and any possibility to touch them. At one point I wanted to do his hair and he said I had to flash him if I wanted to, I accidentally elbowed him or something and he said I had to flash him 3 times now. We will be making out and he just randomly looks under my shirt. Recently, we were making our and lifted my shirt, I put my shirt back down but he kept putting it back up no matter how many times I would pull it back down or he would move my hands if I was covering myself. At some point he took my arms to the side and held them down so he could look at my chest. I know if I really told him to stop he would but I was visibly uncomfortable and he shouldn’t have done that. This just made me really uncomfortable. I should’ve definitely set more clear boundaries however it was pretty obvious in my behavior that I was uncomfortable. He says things like why can’t I look at them and he says that as long as I don’t have a reason why he should be able to, he acts like he’s entitled to it, which he’s most definitely not. And then because I kept pulling my shirt back down he was like ” I’ll just take it off” and I said something along the lines of ” you can’t do that I won’t let you” and he replied with “well technically I could”. He also shoves his tongue down my throat which really isn’t great.
Anyways I was kind of planning on breaking up with him but after that night I definitely will. I just want to make sure that these things aren’t normal or if they could possibly be early warning signs.
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