Hi, as the title suggests, I virtually feel nothing when inside a vagina. I’m not sure if it’s because my sample size is low (I’ve only slept with 5 women) or indicative of a larger sexual inadequacy. I like all things foreplay, like handjobs, blowjobs, etc. but vaginal sex just does nothing for me. I can’t cum from it. Conversely I have found that, women take not cuming as a personal offense to them. Worst case was my ex who bursted out into tears when I said I felt nothing while having. Also I find that all women I’ve been with have a domination kink or like rough sex and dirty talk which I can’t do. I’m just not that guy. For further context I’m a tall black man and all my partners have been black women. Maybe I’m just typecast as a sexually dominant man?
This issue with vaginal sex has been present since I lost my virginity at age 17. I shy away from relationships because of this fact. I know now that sex is incredibly important in relationships. I’ve tried just not having sex in relationships at all but that also doesn’t work either. I want love and affection, and would like to enjoy vaginal sex but it doesn’t seem like that is the reality of my sexuality. I know I’m straight, I have no attraction for men and I am only attracted to women so I’m at a loss on what’s wrong with me.
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r/sex Hi, as the title suggests, I virtually feel nothing when inside a vagina. I’m not sure if it’s because my sample size is low (I’ve only slept with 5 women) or indicative of a larger sexual inadequacy. I like all things foreplay, like handjobs, blowjobs, etc. but vaginal sex just does nothing for me. I can’t cum from it. Conversely I have found that, women take not cuming as a personal offense to them. Worst case was my ex who bursted out into tears when I said I felt nothing while having. Also I find that all women I’ve been with have a domination kink or like rough sex and dirty talk which I can’t do. I’m just not that guy. For further context I’m a tall black man and all my partners have been black women. Maybe I’m just typecast as a sexually dominant man? This issue with vaginal sex has been present since I lost my virginity at age 17. I shy away from relationships because of this fact. I know now that sex is incredibly important in relationships. I’ve tried just not having sex in relationships at all but that also doesn’t work either. I want love and affection, and would like to enjoy vaginal sex but it doesn’t seem like that is the reality of my sexuality. I know I’m straight, I have no attraction for men and I am only attracted to women so I’m at a loss on what’s wrong with me. submitted by /u/DigyYugi [link] [comments]
Hi, as the title suggests, I virtually feel nothing when inside a vagina. I’m not sure if it’s because my sample size is low (I’ve only slept with 5 women) or indicative of a larger sexual inadequacy. I like all things foreplay, like handjobs, blowjobs, etc. but vaginal sex just does nothing for me. I can’t cum from it. Conversely I have found that, women take not cuming as a personal offense to them. Worst case was my ex who bursted out into tears when I said I felt nothing while having. Also I find that all women I’ve been with have a domination kink or like rough sex and dirty talk which I can’t do. I’m just not that guy. For further context I’m a tall black man and all my partners have been black women. Maybe I’m just typecast as a sexually dominant man?
This issue with vaginal sex has been present since I lost my virginity at age 17. I shy away from relationships because of this fact. I know now that sex is incredibly important in relationships. I’ve tried just not having sex in relationships at all but that also doesn’t work either. I want love and affection, and would like to enjoy vaginal sex but it doesn’t seem like that is the reality of my sexuality. I know I’m straight, I have no attraction for men and I am only attracted to women so I’m at a loss on what’s wrong with me.
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