I’ll get right to it, my boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been together for 10 months. We were both each other’s firsts and took things pretty slow and simple at the beginning (due to some trauma on my side), sticking to just basic penetration sex. As we got further into our relationship I became more comfortable with adding in oral, which I found myself to be very enthusiastic to provide to him where as when he returned the favor it ended shortly and with complaints on his end, mostly about how his jaw and tongue would get tired.
Now we see each other rather regularly and I would say I usually go down on him between 2-4 times a week while he has only gone down on me about 3 times in the entirety of our relationship and has stayed eating me out for at most 3 minutes per session before switching up to fingering me.
I have suggested to him before that I am interested in him going down on me more often and have even tried to suggest tips I heard from friends, and have expressed how much I love how it feels when he has tried in the past he still won’t do it. I don’t know what to do or how to ask for him to go down on me more often or at all. I would really appreciate any advice you can give.
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r/sex I’ll get right to it, my boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been together for 10 months. We were both each other’s firsts and took things pretty slow and simple at the beginning (due to some trauma on my side), sticking to just basic penetration sex. As we got further into our relationship I became more comfortable with adding in oral, which I found myself to be very enthusiastic to provide to him where as when he returned the favor it ended shortly and with complaints on his end, mostly about how his jaw and tongue would get tired. Now we see each other rather regularly and I would say I usually go down on him between 2-4 times a week while he has only gone down on me about 3 times in the entirety of our relationship and has stayed eating me out for at most 3 minutes per session before switching up to fingering me. I have suggested to him before that I am interested in him going down on me more often and have even tried to suggest tips I heard from friends, and have expressed how much I love how it feels when he has tried in the past he still won’t do it. I don’t know what to do or how to ask for him to go down on me more often or at all. I would really appreciate any advice you can give. submitted by /u/Celia-Blanc [link] [comments]
I’ll get right to it, my boyfriend (23M) and I (22F) have been together for 10 months. We were both each other’s firsts and took things pretty slow and simple at the beginning (due to some trauma on my side), sticking to just basic penetration sex. As we got further into our relationship I became more comfortable with adding in oral, which I found myself to be very enthusiastic to provide to him where as when he returned the favor it ended shortly and with complaints on his end, mostly about how his jaw and tongue would get tired.
Now we see each other rather regularly and I would say I usually go down on him between 2-4 times a week while he has only gone down on me about 3 times in the entirety of our relationship and has stayed eating me out for at most 3 minutes per session before switching up to fingering me.
I have suggested to him before that I am interested in him going down on me more often and have even tried to suggest tips I heard from friends, and have expressed how much I love how it feels when he has tried in the past he still won’t do it. I don’t know what to do or how to ask for him to go down on me more often or at all. I would really appreciate any advice you can give.
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