We have super fun sex and do it outdoors, in awesome positions, she’s open to fun stuff including toys, swings, and loves it when I tie her down etc.
We’ve been married 12 years and in all this time she has initiated sex less than 5 times. It’s hurt my feelings this entire time, I’ve explained that to her a few times and don’t want to play the sulky bitch victim role and make her feel shame and guilt. It seems she could take or leave if I don’t initiate.
There is almost nothing greater than when a woman initiates. It’s a compliment, it makes me feel wanted desired, validated and it brings me so much damn gratitude.
What can I do to encourage her to initiate with me? Is this just a full on personality thing? If you’re a lady, why do you initiate and what does your man do to encourage it? Men, is your wife an initiator or do you do certain things to encourage it?
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r/sex We have super fun sex and do it outdoors, in awesome positions, she’s open to fun stuff including toys, swings, and loves it when I tie her down etc. We’ve been married 12 years and in all this time she has initiated sex less than 5 times. It’s hurt my feelings this entire time, I’ve explained that to her a few times and don’t want to play the sulky bitch victim role and make her feel shame and guilt. It seems she could take or leave if I don’t initiate. There is almost nothing greater than when a woman initiates. It’s a compliment, it makes me feel wanted desired, validated and it brings me so much damn gratitude. What can I do to encourage her to initiate with me? Is this just a full on personality thing? If you’re a lady, why do you initiate and what does your man do to encourage it? Men, is your wife an initiator or do you do certain things to encourage it? submitted by /u/Quetzalcoatl5 [link] [comments]
We have super fun sex and do it outdoors, in awesome positions, she’s open to fun stuff including toys, swings, and loves it when I tie her down etc.
We’ve been married 12 years and in all this time she has initiated sex less than 5 times. It’s hurt my feelings this entire time, I’ve explained that to her a few times and don’t want to play the sulky bitch victim role and make her feel shame and guilt. It seems she could take or leave if I don’t initiate.
There is almost nothing greater than when a woman initiates. It’s a compliment, it makes me feel wanted desired, validated and it brings me so much damn gratitude.
What can I do to encourage her to initiate with me? Is this just a full on personality thing? If you’re a lady, why do you initiate and what does your man do to encourage it? Men, is your wife an initiator or do you do certain things to encourage it?
submitted by /u/Quetzalcoatl5
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