My husband travels a lot for work (been away for two weeks, is in town for a few hours tomorrow afternoon, then away another week). We’ve planned to spend all of those hours in a hotel, having sex. I want to surprise him with something outside of our normal vanilla sex. I’ve told him I will be trying something new (nothing too weird), and asked him to bring a silk sleeping mask and to roll with it. He said he’s “intrigued”.
Likely on round two, no way I can wait when I first see him 😝 I plan to blindfold him, and bring along a few sensory items and a few words to recite for each one (orange peels (for scent), fresh strawberry, chili chocolate, ice, a hot hands heat pack inside a silk sleeve, a comb (to lightly scratch his back), and a feather boa.
- [ ] Orange – “The scent of an orange is almost like a secret, lingering in the air—citrusy, warm, and inviting. It’s fragrance lingering just long enough to make you crave more, as if the very scent promises an unexpected pleasure
- [ ] Strawberry – “The taste of a strawberry is pure temptation—sweet, succulent, and just the right amount of tart. As you bite into it, the flesh bursts open, releasing its juicy, vibrant flavor that dances on your tongue. It’s a sensation that lingers, leaving a trace of warmth and sweetness, almost as if each bite is a secret shared between you and the fruit, too good to resist, too satisfying to stop.”
- [ ] Chili chocolate – “Spicy dark chocolate is an intoxicating dance of sensations. The dark chocolate, rich and velvety, envelops your senses, drawing you in with its deep, luxurious sweetness. But then, just as you begin to savor the indulgence, the heat of the chili sneaks up—bold, unexpected, and thrilling. It warms you from the inside out, adding a layer of excitement that lingers, leaving you with a craving for more, as if the perfect balance of fire and sweetness could never be fully satisfied.”
- [ ] Ice – Ice is a sensation in itself—crisp, cool, and sharp. The first touch against your skin or lips is electric, sending a rush of cold that contrasts with the warmth beneath. It melts slowly, leaving behind a subtle trace of refreshment, a tantalizing tease as it slips away. It’s a quiet intensity—inviting, yet fleeting, making you crave its chill all over again.”
- [ ] “Feathers are a whisper of sensation, soft and delicate, brushing against your skin like a secret touch. Their gentle caress leaves a trail of lightness, teasing your senses with their airy softness. As they glide over your body, there’s a subtle thrill in the sensation—a slow, teasing pressure that makes you more aware of every inch they trace. It’s a feeling that lingers, like the faintest kiss, leaving you yearning for more.”
- [ ] A sensual back scratch taps into a deeper layer of physical pleasure, where the light pressure against your skin sends a gentle shiver through your body. The sensation is slow, deliberate, and intimate, like a whispering touch that awakens every nerve along your spine. As the scratch moves in fluid, deliberate motions, there’s a deep sense of connection, as if each stroke is an unspoken communication, grounding you in the present moment.
- [ ] Heat on the skin is an intimate pulse, like a flame licking the surface, neither burning nor cool, but deeply satisfying in its warmth, claiming space in the most tender places. The warmth moves over you like liquid silk, with the promise of something more. an invitation to surrender, to let the heat draw you closer, wrap you in its embrace, until you can’t tell where the heat ends and I begin.
I guess my worry is that the words are a little cringy and I don’t want to feel embarrassed. Should I just use the items without the words??
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r/sex My husband travels a lot for work (been away for two weeks, is in town for a few hours tomorrow afternoon, then away another week). We’ve planned to spend all of those hours in a hotel, having sex. I want to surprise him with something outside of our normal vanilla sex. I’ve told him I will be trying something new (nothing too weird), and asked him to bring a silk sleeping mask and to roll with it. He said he’s “intrigued”. Likely on round two, no way I can wait when I first see him 😝 I plan to blindfold him, and bring along a few sensory items and a few words to recite for each one (orange peels (for scent), fresh strawberry, chili chocolate, ice, a hot hands heat pack inside a silk sleeve, a comb (to lightly scratch his back), and a feather boa. [ ] Orange – “The scent of an orange is almost like a secret, lingering in the air—citrusy, warm, and inviting. It’s fragrance lingering just long enough to make you crave more, as if the very scent promises an unexpected pleasure [ ] Strawberry – “The taste of a strawberry is pure temptation—sweet, succulent, and just the right amount of tart. As you bite into it, the flesh bursts open, releasing its juicy, vibrant flavor that dances on your tongue. It’s a sensation that lingers, leaving a trace of warmth and sweetness, almost as if each bite is a secret shared between you and the fruit, too good to resist, too satisfying to stop.” [ ] Chili chocolate – “Spicy dark chocolate is an intoxicating dance of sensations. The dark chocolate, rich and velvety, envelops your senses, drawing you in with its deep, luxurious sweetness. But then, just as you begin to savor the indulgence, the heat of the chili sneaks up—bold, unexpected, and thrilling. It warms you from the inside out, adding a layer of excitement that lingers, leaving you with a craving for more, as if the perfect balance of fire and sweetness could never be fully satisfied.” [ ] Ice – Ice is a sensation in itself—crisp, cool, and sharp. The first touch against your skin or lips is electric, sending a rush of cold that contrasts with the warmth beneath. It melts slowly, leaving behind a subtle trace of refreshment, a tantalizing tease as it slips away. It’s a quiet intensity—inviting, yet fleeting, making you crave its chill all over again.” [ ] “Feathers are a whisper of sensation, soft and delicate, brushing against your skin like a secret touch. Their gentle caress leaves a trail of lightness, teasing your senses with their airy softness. As they glide over your body, there’s a subtle thrill in the sensation—a slow, teasing pressure that makes you more aware of every inch they trace. It’s a feeling that lingers, like the faintest kiss, leaving you yearning for more.” [ ] A sensual back scratch taps into a deeper layer of physical pleasure, where the light pressure against your skin sends a gentle shiver through your body. The sensation is slow, deliberate, and intimate, like a whispering touch that awakens every nerve along your spine. As the scratch moves in fluid, deliberate motions, there’s a deep sense of connection, as if each stroke is an unspoken communication, grounding you in the present moment. [ ] Heat on the skin is an intimate pulse, like a flame licking the surface, neither burning nor cool, but deeply satisfying in its warmth, claiming space in the most tender places. The warmth moves over you like liquid silk, with the promise of something more. an invitation to surrender, to let the heat draw you closer, wrap you in its embrace, until you can’t tell where the heat ends and I begin. I guess my worry is that the words are a little cringy and I don’t want to feel embarrassed. Should I just use the items without the words?? submitted by /u/SnooPickles7195 [link] [comments]
My husband travels a lot for work (been away for two weeks, is in town for a few hours tomorrow afternoon, then away another week). We’ve planned to spend all of those hours in a hotel, having sex. I want to surprise him with something outside of our normal vanilla sex. I’ve told him I will be trying something new (nothing too weird), and asked him to bring a silk sleeping mask and to roll with it. He said he’s “intrigued”.
Likely on round two, no way I can wait when I first see him 😝 I plan to blindfold him, and bring along a few sensory items and a few words to recite for each one (orange peels (for scent), fresh strawberry, chili chocolate, ice, a hot hands heat pack inside a silk sleeve, a comb (to lightly scratch his back), and a feather boa.
- [ ] Orange – “The scent of an orange is almost like a secret, lingering in the air—citrusy, warm, and inviting. It’s fragrance lingering just long enough to make you crave more, as if the very scent promises an unexpected pleasure
- [ ] Strawberry – “The taste of a strawberry is pure temptation—sweet, succulent, and just the right amount of tart. As you bite into it, the flesh bursts open, releasing its juicy, vibrant flavor that dances on your tongue. It’s a sensation that lingers, leaving a trace of warmth and sweetness, almost as if each bite is a secret shared between you and the fruit, too good to resist, too satisfying to stop.”
- [ ] Chili chocolate – “Spicy dark chocolate is an intoxicating dance of sensations. The dark chocolate, rich and velvety, envelops your senses, drawing you in with its deep, luxurious sweetness. But then, just as you begin to savor the indulgence, the heat of the chili sneaks up—bold, unexpected, and thrilling. It warms you from the inside out, adding a layer of excitement that lingers, leaving you with a craving for more, as if the perfect balance of fire and sweetness could never be fully satisfied.”
- [ ] Ice – Ice is a sensation in itself—crisp, cool, and sharp. The first touch against your skin or lips is electric, sending a rush of cold that contrasts with the warmth beneath. It melts slowly, leaving behind a subtle trace of refreshment, a tantalizing tease as it slips away. It’s a quiet intensity—inviting, yet fleeting, making you crave its chill all over again.”
- [ ] “Feathers are a whisper of sensation, soft and delicate, brushing against your skin like a secret touch. Their gentle caress leaves a trail of lightness, teasing your senses with their airy softness. As they glide over your body, there’s a subtle thrill in the sensation—a slow, teasing pressure that makes you more aware of every inch they trace. It’s a feeling that lingers, like the faintest kiss, leaving you yearning for more.”
- [ ] A sensual back scratch taps into a deeper layer of physical pleasure, where the light pressure against your skin sends a gentle shiver through your body. The sensation is slow, deliberate, and intimate, like a whispering touch that awakens every nerve along your spine. As the scratch moves in fluid, deliberate motions, there’s a deep sense of connection, as if each stroke is an unspoken communication, grounding you in the present moment.
- [ ] Heat on the skin is an intimate pulse, like a flame licking the surface, neither burning nor cool, but deeply satisfying in its warmth, claiming space in the most tender places. The warmth moves over you like liquid silk, with the promise of something more. an invitation to surrender, to let the heat draw you closer, wrap you in its embrace, until you can’t tell where the heat ends and I begin.
I guess my worry is that the words are a little cringy and I don’t want to feel embarrassed. Should I just use the items without the words??
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