My Girlfriend has insecurities about her labia being too big. She prefers to touch her self rather than allow me to touch her because she doesn’t feel comfortable with others touching it. She is perfectly happy to have penetrative sex, but she doesn’t like it with the lights on because she doesn’t want me to see it. I’ve tried giving her oral a couple times, both times she began to enjoy it and both times she stopped me when she was close to orgasm saying she isn’t comfortable with me doing it to her because she feels gross and unattractive down there. I tell her that her labia is beautiful and I prefer bigger labia, but it doesn’t seem to help her any. I imagine she may need some sort of therapy to help with her self shaming and pleasure denial she has attached to it. I enjoy giving oral and would love to make her feel good, she is very pretty from head to toe and her labia is beautiful as well. I hope we can find some sort of resolution that can help us in our sex life because she is far too beautiful to be in her head so much. I don’t understand why she would feel this way about herself.
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r/sex My Girlfriend has insecurities about her labia being too big. She prefers to touch her self rather than allow me to touch her because she doesn’t feel comfortable with others touching it. She is perfectly happy to have penetrative sex, but she doesn’t like it with the lights on because she doesn’t want me to see it. I’ve tried giving her oral a couple times, both times she began to enjoy it and both times she stopped me when she was close to orgasm saying she isn’t comfortable with me doing it to her because she feels gross and unattractive down there. I tell her that her labia is beautiful and I prefer bigger labia, but it doesn’t seem to help her any. I imagine she may need some sort of therapy to help with her self shaming and pleasure denial she has attached to it. I enjoy giving oral and would love to make her feel good, she is very pretty from head to toe and her labia is beautiful as well. I hope we can find some sort of resolution that can help us in our sex life because she is far too beautiful to be in her head so much. I don’t understand why she would feel this way about herself. submitted by /u/Jackson_S087 [link] [comments]
My Girlfriend has insecurities about her labia being too big. She prefers to touch her self rather than allow me to touch her because she doesn’t feel comfortable with others touching it. She is perfectly happy to have penetrative sex, but she doesn’t like it with the lights on because she doesn’t want me to see it. I’ve tried giving her oral a couple times, both times she began to enjoy it and both times she stopped me when she was close to orgasm saying she isn’t comfortable with me doing it to her because she feels gross and unattractive down there. I tell her that her labia is beautiful and I prefer bigger labia, but it doesn’t seem to help her any. I imagine she may need some sort of therapy to help with her self shaming and pleasure denial she has attached to it. I enjoy giving oral and would love to make her feel good, she is very pretty from head to toe and her labia is beautiful as well. I hope we can find some sort of resolution that can help us in our sex life because she is far too beautiful to be in her head so much. I don’t understand why she would feel this way about herself.
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