As title says, he doesn’t like me masturbating. That includes toys and my own fingers.
He can not comprehend that sometimes I just like to feel close to myself, sometimes I like the control, sometimes, I don’t even want any intimacy, I just want to be able to rub my clit when I get the urge, till I orgasm quickly so I can move on with my day.
He says I ‘shouldn’t need to do that’ since I ‘have’ him, he’s also expressed disappointment and annoyance with me when I stated it’s nothing to do with him personally.
But even with the best directions, guidance and whispered sweet nothings, sometimes it’s just easier, more intense AND efficient for me to service myself.
How to explain I like solo play time, without upsetting him?
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r/sex As title says, he doesn’t like me masturbating. That includes toys and my own fingers. He can not comprehend that sometimes I just like to feel close to myself, sometimes I like the control, sometimes, I don’t even want any intimacy, I just want to be able to rub my clit when I get the urge, till I orgasm quickly so I can move on with my day. He says I ‘shouldn’t need to do that’ since I ‘have’ him, he’s also expressed disappointment and annoyance with me when I stated it’s nothing to do with him personally. But even with the best directions, guidance and whispered sweet nothings, sometimes it’s just easier, more intense AND efficient for me to service myself. How to explain I like solo play time, without upsetting him? submitted by /u/solitahoneybaby [link] [comments]
As title says, he doesn’t like me masturbating. That includes toys and my own fingers.
He can not comprehend that sometimes I just like to feel close to myself, sometimes I like the control, sometimes, I don’t even want any intimacy, I just want to be able to rub my clit when I get the urge, till I orgasm quickly so I can move on with my day.
He says I ‘shouldn’t need to do that’ since I ‘have’ him, he’s also expressed disappointment and annoyance with me when I stated it’s nothing to do with him personally.
But even with the best directions, guidance and whispered sweet nothings, sometimes it’s just easier, more intense AND efficient for me to service myself.
How to explain I like solo play time, without upsetting him?
submitted by /u/solitahoneybaby
[link] [comments]