I (20F) have been with my boyfriend (20M) for about 6 months. We never fully had sex yet but we have done oral and he has fingered me before. The problem is that I have never orgasmed both ways. We have done it a handful of times and for a long duration but I just can’t finish and I start to feel bad and tell him it’s okay. I have finished before with a rose so I decided to incorporate that into what we have done and 1. he didn’t know where to really place it so I told him I will do it and he can finger and 2. I did manage to finish that time but I needed to kind of imagine something else/ really concentrate on what is happening and when I did, it was the least intense orgasm I ever had. I want to help him but at the same time I don’t have a lot of experience at all. I have only masturbated with a rose and when I try to do it with my fingers I can get off but it’s not as intense and it takes a long time even for me. I also only do the outside and only let my bf finger me inside because I tend to get scared to do that myself. That feels good sometimes but other times it’s just painful and I never got off that way ever. What are ways that I can guide him or what do you think is missing/my next steps should be? Any adv appreciated bad or good!
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r/sex I (20F) have been with my boyfriend (20M) for about 6 months. We never fully had sex yet but we have done oral and he has fingered me before. The problem is that I have never orgasmed both ways. We have done it a handful of times and for a long duration but I just can’t finish and I start to feel bad and tell him it’s okay. I have finished before with a rose so I decided to incorporate that into what we have done and 1. he didn’t know where to really place it so I told him I will do it and he can finger and 2. I did manage to finish that time but I needed to kind of imagine something else/ really concentrate on what is happening and when I did, it was the least intense orgasm I ever had. I want to help him but at the same time I don’t have a lot of experience at all. I have only masturbated with a rose and when I try to do it with my fingers I can get off but it’s not as intense and it takes a long time even for me. I also only do the outside and only let my bf finger me inside because I tend to get scared to do that myself. That feels good sometimes but other times it’s just painful and I never got off that way ever. What are ways that I can guide him or what do you think is missing/my next steps should be? Any adv appreciated bad or good! submitted by /u/Appropriate_Tip_2679 [link] [comments]
I (20F) have been with my boyfriend (20M) for about 6 months. We never fully had sex yet but we have done oral and he has fingered me before. The problem is that I have never orgasmed both ways. We have done it a handful of times and for a long duration but I just can’t finish and I start to feel bad and tell him it’s okay. I have finished before with a rose so I decided to incorporate that into what we have done and 1. he didn’t know where to really place it so I told him I will do it and he can finger and 2. I did manage to finish that time but I needed to kind of imagine something else/ really concentrate on what is happening and when I did, it was the least intense orgasm I ever had. I want to help him but at the same time I don’t have a lot of experience at all. I have only masturbated with a rose and when I try to do it with my fingers I can get off but it’s not as intense and it takes a long time even for me. I also only do the outside and only let my bf finger me inside because I tend to get scared to do that myself. That feels good sometimes but other times it’s just painful and I never got off that way ever. What are ways that I can guide him or what do you think is missing/my next steps should be? Any adv appreciated bad or good!
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