I can’t seem to be able to penetrate her? /u/PsychologicalTale365 Sex

Me (M24) and my SO (F25) have been trying to have sex for the past couple of weeks and penetration is out of the table. She was a virgin (and I’m also inexperienced due to only having one prior partner) and in this time, the most we managed to do was 1 finger.

I understand this may be a slow process depending on the person, but what feels weird is that now, one finger goes in smoothly, but as soon as I try 2, I start feeling what should be the hymen? TMI, but it’s a membrane on all sides that essentially clamp my fingers like I’m trying to squeeze them through a small rubber opening. Before the second knuckle, the pain becomes unbearable and she starts bleeding. Actual PIV is out of question because I’m above average and nothing but the tip fits.

We may be overthinking a bit and probably just need more time, but still, it feels like something may be not exactly right and we’d like to have some more experienced opinions.

Me (M24) and my SO (F25) have been trying to have sex for the past couple of weeks and penetration is out of the table. She was a virgin (and I’m also inexperienced due to only having one prior partner) and in this time, the most we managed to do was 1 finger.

I understand this may be a slow process depending on the person, but what feels weird is that now, one finger goes in smoothly, but as soon as I try 2, I start feeling what should be the hymen? TMI, but it’s a membrane on all sides that essentially clamp my fingers like I’m trying to squeeze them through a small rubber opening. Before the second knuckle, the pain becomes unbearable and she starts bleeding. Actual PIV is out of question because I’m above average and nothing but the tip fits.

We may be overthinking a bit and probably just need more time, but still, it feels like something may be not exactly right and we’d like to have some more experienced opinions.