I’ve recently been dating my gf going almost 6 months now. I’m her first everything, but I have dated in the past and have had experiences sexually before.
Whenever we have sex or get intimate, she’s ultimately a very anxious person and it presents itself physically when we do try to have sex. The positioning gets awkward. In missionary she’ll straighten her legs to a point where it’s hard for me to even penetrate her.
The most we’ve done is oral sex (receiving/giving) which she’s been great with. But the sex part is a hurdle I find. Warming her up to it with loads of foreplay is something I tried last time, but still couldn’t get beyond trying to penetrate her.
Shes great and open with what she likes/doesn’t like but usually a topic I have to start first. I’ve kind of realized she is a very submissive person in bed (which is super hot to me).
I don’t know how to help her feel more comfortable enough to have sex. I just want to have sex with her so bad. I find her so attractive. I think the next time I will try some lube to help with when we’re together next.
Any advice?
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r/sex I’ve recently been dating my gf going almost 6 months now. I’m her first everything, but I have dated in the past and have had experiences sexually before. Whenever we have sex or get intimate, she’s ultimately a very anxious person and it presents itself physically when we do try to have sex. The positioning gets awkward. In missionary she’ll straighten her legs to a point where it’s hard for me to even penetrate her. The most we’ve done is oral sex (receiving/giving) which she’s been great with. But the sex part is a hurdle I find. Warming her up to it with loads of foreplay is something I tried last time, but still couldn’t get beyond trying to penetrate her. Shes great and open with what she likes/doesn’t like but usually a topic I have to start first. I’ve kind of realized she is a very submissive person in bed (which is super hot to me). I don’t know how to help her feel more comfortable enough to have sex. I just want to have sex with her so bad. I find her so attractive. I think the next time I will try some lube to help with when we’re together next. Any advice? submitted by /u/PasqualeSiakam [link] [comments]
I’ve recently been dating my gf going almost 6 months now. I’m her first everything, but I have dated in the past and have had experiences sexually before.
Whenever we have sex or get intimate, she’s ultimately a very anxious person and it presents itself physically when we do try to have sex. The positioning gets awkward. In missionary she’ll straighten her legs to a point where it’s hard for me to even penetrate her.
The most we’ve done is oral sex (receiving/giving) which she’s been great with. But the sex part is a hurdle I find. Warming her up to it with loads of foreplay is something I tried last time, but still couldn’t get beyond trying to penetrate her.
Shes great and open with what she likes/doesn’t like but usually a topic I have to start first. I’ve kind of realized she is a very submissive person in bed (which is super hot to me).
I don’t know how to help her feel more comfortable enough to have sex. I just want to have sex with her so bad. I find her so attractive. I think the next time I will try some lube to help with when we’re together next.
Any advice?
submitted by /u/PasqualeSiakam
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