I know how this is going to sound and I know I’m going to get a lot of crap. I’m having a hard time wanting to initiate or to reciprocate affection because she’s reached full “comfort mode”. When she dresses nicely or even puts on a pair of jeans and a top with a little mascara, I always compliment how she looks and try to encourage her that thats all I need. She doesn’t ever wear other make up because she wants to keep her skin clear(which I support) she’s the first woman I’ve dated who never wears any makeup ever. But 99% of the time it’s sweats and leggings with an oversized sweatshirt and unbrushed hair. I don’t want to make her feel rejected or unattractive but I feel like she expects me to act like a horny 14 year old when she looks like she’s ready to go to Walmart for eggs. I feel like I’m not asking for a lot but I feel like an asshole all the time because I don’t want to be sexual because well she’s not doing anything to try to turn me on. She’s a great partner but I refuse to have a dead bedroom.
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r/sex I know how this is going to sound and I know I’m going to get a lot of crap. I’m having a hard time wanting to initiate or to reciprocate affection because she’s reached full “comfort mode”. When she dresses nicely or even puts on a pair of jeans and a top with a little mascara, I always compliment how she looks and try to encourage her that thats all I need. She doesn’t ever wear other make up because she wants to keep her skin clear(which I support) she’s the first woman I’ve dated who never wears any makeup ever. But 99% of the time it’s sweats and leggings with an oversized sweatshirt and unbrushed hair. I don’t want to make her feel rejected or unattractive but I feel like she expects me to act like a horny 14 year old when she looks like she’s ready to go to Walmart for eggs. I feel like I’m not asking for a lot but I feel like an asshole all the time because I don’t want to be sexual because well she’s not doing anything to try to turn me on. She’s a great partner but I refuse to have a dead bedroom. submitted by /u/wellthatseemslikebs [link] [comments]
I know how this is going to sound and I know I’m going to get a lot of crap. I’m having a hard time wanting to initiate or to reciprocate affection because she’s reached full “comfort mode”. When she dresses nicely or even puts on a pair of jeans and a top with a little mascara, I always compliment how she looks and try to encourage her that thats all I need. She doesn’t ever wear other make up because she wants to keep her skin clear(which I support) she’s the first woman I’ve dated who never wears any makeup ever. But 99% of the time it’s sweats and leggings with an oversized sweatshirt and unbrushed hair. I don’t want to make her feel rejected or unattractive but I feel like she expects me to act like a horny 14 year old when she looks like she’s ready to go to Walmart for eggs. I feel like I’m not asking for a lot but I feel like an asshole all the time because I don’t want to be sexual because well she’s not doing anything to try to turn me on. She’s a great partner but I refuse to have a dead bedroom.
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