Hey so I don’t really know where to start I’ve been seeing this guy for three weeks and everything has been going okay, I like him and think he’s cute and attractive but idk if I could date him. As time has gone on there are more and more things building up and idk if I’m just overreacting. Some examples are he’s just strange like will send me videos cross eyed which I just think is strange and idk it’s not funny to me. He also has shown in my mind some red flags such as snapping a photo of me asleep in his bed to me. I woke up in the morning and was very confused looking at the image and asked him and he just said “your cute but ill delete it” so that made me really uncomfortable. And then he also keeps saying how he’s not like other guys and doesn’t just want sex which has been nice because he’s definitely not pushy but everytime I’m drunk or high he’ll push it and in my mind try to get me to consent while under the influence. I’ve told him while sober I don’t want too and that it doesn’t count when I’m high but just the other night I was high and horny and he made an advance and he pulled his boxers down and slapped it against my ass. It caught me off guard and I rolled over and felt his dick for the first time and it’s skinny which was an immediate turn off. Idk I just rolled back over and told him I didn’t wanna fuck and he seemed kinda upset. I just don’t know what to do now should I see what sex is like with a skinny dick or should I just keep letting our dates play out?
Do you think the red flags are red? And should I fuck him even if I don’t think his dick is attractive?
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r/sex Hey so I don’t really know where to start I’ve been seeing this guy for three weeks and everything has been going okay, I like him and think he’s cute and attractive but idk if I could date him. As time has gone on there are more and more things building up and idk if I’m just overreacting. Some examples are he’s just strange like will send me videos cross eyed which I just think is strange and idk it’s not funny to me. He also has shown in my mind some red flags such as snapping a photo of me asleep in his bed to me. I woke up in the morning and was very confused looking at the image and asked him and he just said “your cute but ill delete it” so that made me really uncomfortable. And then he also keeps saying how he’s not like other guys and doesn’t just want sex which has been nice because he’s definitely not pushy but everytime I’m drunk or high he’ll push it and in my mind try to get me to consent while under the influence. I’ve told him while sober I don’t want too and that it doesn’t count when I’m high but just the other night I was high and horny and he made an advance and he pulled his boxers down and slapped it against my ass. It caught me off guard and I rolled over and felt his dick for the first time and it’s skinny which was an immediate turn off. Idk I just rolled back over and told him I didn’t wanna fuck and he seemed kinda upset. I just don’t know what to do now should I see what sex is like with a skinny dick or should I just keep letting our dates play out? Do you think the red flags are red? And should I fuck him even if I don’t think his dick is attractive? submitted by /u/Cute_Look_4243 [link] [comments]
Hey so I don’t really know where to start I’ve been seeing this guy for three weeks and everything has been going okay, I like him and think he’s cute and attractive but idk if I could date him. As time has gone on there are more and more things building up and idk if I’m just overreacting. Some examples are he’s just strange like will send me videos cross eyed which I just think is strange and idk it’s not funny to me. He also has shown in my mind some red flags such as snapping a photo of me asleep in his bed to me. I woke up in the morning and was very confused looking at the image and asked him and he just said “your cute but ill delete it” so that made me really uncomfortable. And then he also keeps saying how he’s not like other guys and doesn’t just want sex which has been nice because he’s definitely not pushy but everytime I’m drunk or high he’ll push it and in my mind try to get me to consent while under the influence. I’ve told him while sober I don’t want too and that it doesn’t count when I’m high but just the other night I was high and horny and he made an advance and he pulled his boxers down and slapped it against my ass. It caught me off guard and I rolled over and felt his dick for the first time and it’s skinny which was an immediate turn off. Idk I just rolled back over and told him I didn’t wanna fuck and he seemed kinda upset. I just don’t know what to do now should I see what sex is like with a skinny dick or should I just keep letting our dates play out?
Do you think the red flags are red? And should I fuck him even if I don’t think his dick is attractive?
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