Hi everyone!
With Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m planning to make it extra special for my partner by surprising her with a romantic hotel stay and some new toys. I’ve been thinking about getting her a suction cup dildo as part of a fantasy I’d like to explore together.
My idea is to use it during an intimate moment where she can alternate between me and the toy—whether that’s giving oral to the toy while I’m with her, or using it to simulate a MFM scenario. Ultimately, this ties into my interest in exploring fantasies like sharing her or potentially opening up to the idea of swinging in the future.
I do have a couple of questions, though: 1. When choosing the toy, would it be better to go for something similar to my size, or would a larger, girthier option be more appealing for this kind of fantasy?
2. Do you think introducing a toy in this way might naturally open the door to conversations about a real MFM experience or trying swinging down the line? I’d love to hear any advice, thoughts or personal experiences from others who navigated similar fantasies or situations.
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r/sex Hi everyone! With Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m planning to make it extra special for my partner by surprising her with a romantic hotel stay and some new toys. I’ve been thinking about getting her a suction cup dildo as part of a fantasy I’d like to explore together. My idea is to use it during an intimate moment where she can alternate between me and the toy—whether that’s giving oral to the toy while I’m with her, or using it to simulate a MFM scenario. Ultimately, this ties into my interest in exploring fantasies like sharing her or potentially opening up to the idea of swinging in the future. I do have a couple of questions, though: 1. When choosing the toy, would it be better to go for something similar to my size, or would a larger, girthier option be more appealing for this kind of fantasy? 2. Do you think introducing a toy in this way might naturally open the door to conversations about a real MFM experience or trying swinging down the line? I’d love to hear any advice, thoughts or personal experiences from others who navigated similar fantasies or situations. submitted by /u/AdhesivenessBetter75 [link] [comments]
Hi everyone!
With Valentine’s Day approaching, I’m planning to make it extra special for my partner by surprising her with a romantic hotel stay and some new toys. I’ve been thinking about getting her a suction cup dildo as part of a fantasy I’d like to explore together.
My idea is to use it during an intimate moment where she can alternate between me and the toy—whether that’s giving oral to the toy while I’m with her, or using it to simulate a MFM scenario. Ultimately, this ties into my interest in exploring fantasies like sharing her or potentially opening up to the idea of swinging in the future.
I do have a couple of questions, though: 1. When choosing the toy, would it be better to go for something similar to my size, or would a larger, girthier option be more appealing for this kind of fantasy?
2. Do you think introducing a toy in this way might naturally open the door to conversations about a real MFM experience or trying swinging down the line? I’d love to hear any advice, thoughts or personal experiences from others who navigated similar fantasies or situations.
submitted by /u/AdhesivenessBetter75
[link] [comments]