Partner often tries to initiate sex when he’s still asleep? /u/moosnews Sex

Me (28f) and my partner (29m) have been together about 3 years.

Thoughtout our relationship, he has often initiated sex during the night – which obviously wakes me up. It used to happen maybe monthly, but now it’s a few times a week. Usually it’s about an hour after we lay down to go to bed. Sometimes we have sex and sometimes I brush him off and he goes back to sleep.

The thing is, is that he says in the morning he doesn’t remember initiating it – but he remembers having sex once it starts. If I brush him off he will say he doesn’t remember making a move at all. I remember because it wakes me up of course.

I’m frustrated because it disturbs my sleep. He says it’s out of his control, so I don’t want to be mad at him.

Does this happen in other relationships? I wonder how common it is.

TDLR: my partner initiates sex during the night while asleep and often doesn’t remember it

Me (28f) and my partner (29m) have been together about 3 years.

Thoughtout our relationship, he has often initiated sex during the night – which obviously wakes me up. It used to happen maybe monthly, but now it’s a few times a week. Usually it’s about an hour after we lay down to go to bed. Sometimes we have sex and sometimes I brush him off and he goes back to sleep.

The thing is, is that he says in the morning he doesn’t remember initiating it – but he remembers having sex once it starts. If I brush him off he will say he doesn’t remember making a move at all. I remember because it wakes me up of course.

I’m frustrated because it disturbs my sleep. He says it’s out of his control, so I don’t want to be mad at him.

Does this happen in other relationships? I wonder how common it is.

TDLR: my partner initiates sex during the night while asleep and often doesn’t remember it