Please help me make sense of why I am the way I am! I’m 39f, married with kids. In my mind I am incredibly adventurous and want to do this that and the other. But I don’t know why, I cannot pinpoint a reason, I am incredibly prudish. Growing up I wouldnt ever use tampons because it meant putting something inside me, masturbation has always been taboo and something you do alone and NEVER involved putting something up there. (This has changed alot over the years and I will touch myself when in the throws of it) I’ve recently bought a toy and I’m dying to use it but it’s a dildo type and for whatever reason putting things in there just seems wrong to me. My husband keeps asking why I’m waiting to be alone to experiment with my toys and I can’t answer… maybe confidence or ?? We are in a dead bedroom type situation but it’s come to light it’s me that’s the reason even with a HL I’m not willing to experiment and let go of whatever is holding me back..
Any tips, tricks or advice on breaking free of this weird taboo feeling I have around sex and masturbation??
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r/sex Please help me make sense of why I am the way I am! I’m 39f, married with kids. In my mind I am incredibly adventurous and want to do this that and the other. But I don’t know why, I cannot pinpoint a reason, I am incredibly prudish. Growing up I wouldnt ever use tampons because it meant putting something inside me, masturbation has always been taboo and something you do alone and NEVER involved putting something up there. (This has changed alot over the years and I will touch myself when in the throws of it) I’ve recently bought a toy and I’m dying to use it but it’s a dildo type and for whatever reason putting things in there just seems wrong to me. My husband keeps asking why I’m waiting to be alone to experiment with my toys and I can’t answer… maybe confidence or ?? We are in a dead bedroom type situation but it’s come to light it’s me that’s the reason even with a HL I’m not willing to experiment and let go of whatever is holding me back.. Any tips, tricks or advice on breaking free of this weird taboo feeling I have around sex and masturbation?? submitted by /u/Fickle_Internet_4426 [link] [comments]
Please help me make sense of why I am the way I am! I’m 39f, married with kids. In my mind I am incredibly adventurous and want to do this that and the other. But I don’t know why, I cannot pinpoint a reason, I am incredibly prudish. Growing up I wouldnt ever use tampons because it meant putting something inside me, masturbation has always been taboo and something you do alone and NEVER involved putting something up there. (This has changed alot over the years and I will touch myself when in the throws of it) I’ve recently bought a toy and I’m dying to use it but it’s a dildo type and for whatever reason putting things in there just seems wrong to me. My husband keeps asking why I’m waiting to be alone to experiment with my toys and I can’t answer… maybe confidence or ?? We are in a dead bedroom type situation but it’s come to light it’s me that’s the reason even with a HL I’m not willing to experiment and let go of whatever is holding me back..
Any tips, tricks or advice on breaking free of this weird taboo feeling I have around sex and masturbation??
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