Phone Sex–He cums, I don’t /u/___tulip___ Sex

Hello..I’m not sure if this belongs here since it’s not “true” intercourse.. But I’ve been having phone sex with a man miles away from me for several months now. He’s really kind and sweet, and I love his voice and he’s ain’t too bad to look at either hehe😏🤭 But the thing is…whenever we have phone sex, he always is able to cum and cum first..while I…I take fucking forever to get to my orgasm, if at all. I know deep inside it’s nothing to be ashamed nor embarrassed about..but I can’t help but feel awful for making him wait for so long and also feel disappointed in myself bc I can’t do it in time. And what I mean by “in time” is that often, we both got things to do in daily life and gots to get to it, ya know? Responsibilities and tasks and whatnot🫡

So 99% of the time, we’ll have to cut it “short” and part ways until we’re both horny again later. But..it’s been this way for a while..and although I do enjoy my time with him bc it is fun and horny times are always fun🥴👉👈 I’m starting to develop a tiny bit of resentment?..😳😩 bc he always gets to cum while I don’t get cum at all.. and it’s very rare when we find and make time to have a long session to where I can stimulate myself and actually cum. Tbh..i can only recall one time when I was able to cum for real and that took foreverrrr..😮‍💨😞 (like probably 45min+) it felt relieving when I was able to finish but it also didn’t really feel that great bc inside I just felt a bit of shame and annoyance at myself for having to take so long and he’s just there on the other side trying his best to do sexy talk (for a while lol) while he waits for me to cum.. he’s told me he doesn’t mind me taking long and he’s also so sweet with reassuring me that it’s normal for women to take more time to cum compared to men.

So idk I guess my most important question is that, what do I do with this developing feeling of resentment? That’s the biggest and most alarming part of this for me…I DONT want to feel this way.. I don’t want to eventually hate him for cumming while I don’t get to. Maybe it’s just bad time management on our parts and not being able to pick good times to do phone sex and masturbate together… But I’m sooo hornyyyy😭 and I love his company more than doing it solo…sigh😮‍💨

Anyway, anyone going or gone through this? Ladies (or anyone), what did you do and how did you better communicate with your partner? I need help 🥺😔

Hello..I’m not sure if this belongs here since it’s not “true” intercourse.. But I’ve been having phone sex with a man miles away from me for several months now. He’s really kind and sweet, and I love his voice and he’s ain’t too bad to look at either hehe😏🤭 But the thing is…whenever we have phone sex, he always is able to cum and cum first..while I…I take fucking forever to get to my orgasm, if at all. I know deep inside it’s nothing to be ashamed nor embarrassed about..but I can’t help but feel awful for making him wait for so long and also feel disappointed in myself bc I can’t do it in time. And what I mean by “in time” is that often, we both got things to do in daily life and gots to get to it, ya know? Responsibilities and tasks and whatnot🫡

So 99% of the time, we’ll have to cut it “short” and part ways until we’re both horny again later. But..it’s been this way for a while..and although I do enjoy my time with him bc it is fun and horny times are always fun🥴👉👈 I’m starting to develop a tiny bit of resentment?..😳😩 bc he always gets to cum while I don’t get cum at all.. and it’s very rare when we find and make time to have a long session to where I can stimulate myself and actually cum. Tbh..i can only recall one time when I was able to cum for real and that took foreverrrr..😮‍💨😞 (like probably 45min+) it felt relieving when I was able to finish but it also didn’t really feel that great bc inside I just felt a bit of shame and annoyance at myself for having to take so long and he’s just there on the other side trying his best to do sexy talk (for a while lol) while he waits for me to cum.. he’s told me he doesn’t mind me taking long and he’s also so sweet with reassuring me that it’s normal for women to take more time to cum compared to men.

So idk I guess my most important question is that, what do I do with this developing feeling of resentment? That’s the biggest and most alarming part of this for me…I DONT want to feel this way.. I don’t want to eventually hate him for cumming while I don’t get to. Maybe it’s just bad time management on our parts and not being able to pick good times to do phone sex and masturbate together… But I’m sooo hornyyyy😭 and I love his company more than doing it solo…sigh😮‍💨

Anyway, anyone going or gone through this? Ladies (or anyone), what did you do and how did you better communicate with your partner? I need help 🥺😔