My girlfriend who I adore has no interest in letting me explore a kink of mine and I’m struggling to identify how significant it is for our relationship. /u/Weak-Succotash-9443 Sex

My (M) girlfriend of 2 years initially was very sexually open in what I’ll call our “honeymoon” phase and we had really great sex. In the last 9-12 months, the stream has started to fade in the bedroom a little.

We don’t have sex with eachother as much as I’d like (we have demanding schedules midweek), and I feel myself getting frustrated. This is something I’ve brought up, we both end up agreeing we want the same and then nothing much changes after an apparent “good conversation”.

I used to love eating her ass and going down on her, which she encouraged during the honeymoon phase but now every time I attempt, she tells me no which turns me off a little.

Any advice would be great!

My (M) girlfriend of 2 years initially was very sexually open in what I’ll call our “honeymoon” phase and we had really great sex. In the last 9-12 months, the stream has started to fade in the bedroom a little.

We don’t have sex with eachother as much as I’d like (we have demanding schedules midweek), and I feel myself getting frustrated. This is something I’ve brought up, we both end up agreeing we want the same and then nothing much changes after an apparent “good conversation”.

I used to love eating her ass and going down on her, which she encouraged during the honeymoon phase but now every time I attempt, she tells me no which turns me off a little.

Any advice would be great!