i’m a 19f almost 20 , and i have never felt anything from being penetrated . i’m wondering if it has anything to do with childhood trauma , as i was sexually abused as a child . but i have been in therapy since i was 5 and have worked through it . i will also say , that i have never actually had sex with anyone consensually . i masturbate a healthy amount , and i am very comfortable doing so with myself so i don’t think there’s any mental blockage there , but when using my fingers or toys i simply just don’t find pleasure in it ? i mean i can obviously feel that there’s something inside me , but i just don’t feel pleasure from it , i just feel the presence . i’ve also tried using toys to stimulate my clit but even with that i can feel the difference between the fact that all the pleasure i’m getting is from that stimulation and not at all from the penetration . am i possibly doing something wrong ? i mean i’ve had to tell every guy that i’ve been with that i’m not interested in sex because i know once anything happens i’m just going to be laying there as if nothing is even happening and it’s going to be so awkward . if anyone can help with information that would be greatly appreciated !
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r/sex i’m a 19f almost 20 , and i have never felt anything from being penetrated . i’m wondering if it has anything to do with childhood trauma , as i was sexually abused as a child . but i have been in therapy since i was 5 and have worked through it . i will also say , that i have never actually had sex with anyone consensually . i masturbate a healthy amount , and i am very comfortable doing so with myself so i don’t think there’s any mental blockage there , but when using my fingers or toys i simply just don’t find pleasure in it ? i mean i can obviously feel that there’s something inside me , but i just don’t feel pleasure from it , i just feel the presence . i’ve also tried using toys to stimulate my clit but even with that i can feel the difference between the fact that all the pleasure i’m getting is from that stimulation and not at all from the penetration . am i possibly doing something wrong ? i mean i’ve had to tell every guy that i’ve been with that i’m not interested in sex because i know once anything happens i’m just going to be laying there as if nothing is even happening and it’s going to be so awkward . if anyone can help with information that would be greatly appreciated ! submitted by /u/terrorrmisu [link] [comments]
i’m a 19f almost 20 , and i have never felt anything from being penetrated . i’m wondering if it has anything to do with childhood trauma , as i was sexually abused as a child . but i have been in therapy since i was 5 and have worked through it . i will also say , that i have never actually had sex with anyone consensually . i masturbate a healthy amount , and i am very comfortable doing so with myself so i don’t think there’s any mental blockage there , but when using my fingers or toys i simply just don’t find pleasure in it ? i mean i can obviously feel that there’s something inside me , but i just don’t feel pleasure from it , i just feel the presence . i’ve also tried using toys to stimulate my clit but even with that i can feel the difference between the fact that all the pleasure i’m getting is from that stimulation and not at all from the penetration . am i possibly doing something wrong ? i mean i’ve had to tell every guy that i’ve been with that i’m not interested in sex because i know once anything happens i’m just going to be laying there as if nothing is even happening and it’s going to be so awkward . if anyone can help with information that would be greatly appreciated !
submitted by /u/terrorrmisu
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